i still love my ex very much

[ImCoolBeans]

my last strong committed relationship lasted 6 months and the last month started out as small arguments and they turned into small fights and then one day we had one fight and some things were said that shouldnt have ever been said by both of us and once your hurt badly by someone you love you never forget it. i still love her to death and its been almost a year since we broke up, i would give anything to get her back. we still talk a little bit, ive never had a connection with anyone like i did with her... we dated over AIM in 5th grade because she lives a town over, and then last year (8th grade) we started talking not realizing that we had dated and then we started dating and we realized and we had such a great connection. i feel like we're meant to be together and i can actually say that i love her. how could i win her back?

[Scarface]

It's been over a year now, even though it's very hard especially a break up where you're close with the person. It can be hard to see the things that transpired. I remember when i broke up with my boy friend of 3 years. That was very hard for me to do. As we had shared so many great times together over the time we had gone out. The moments we had shared even though it wasn't a perfect relationship and you're right those moments that were bad and some of the things that we had said to each other I still remember to this day.

What I recommend is I would if you are really set on getting her back. Start building from the ground up. Just start talking to her more often. Maybe just going for walks or spending quality time (not affectionately) and build a relationship as friends back up that way you can start to regain stronger feelings. It will take time, but if you really want her back it very well could work. I really hope things work out for you, if you ever need someone to talk to I'm always here, PM/VM me anytime.

[ImCoolBeans]

thank you so much, thats really helpful and i'll give it a try. im pretty mixed up with feelings right now, theres so much going on but at the end of the day i just want her.

[Scarface]

I can completely understand that, I still want my ex back so bad, but there are somethings in life that we just can't have, but in your situation you have a better chance of getting back together than my ex and I. I really hope that things work out for you and I'm glad I could be of some help. I'm always here if you need more help PM me anytime.

[DanielBoy]

You just need to ask her back out, say you think you guys should give it another try, and apologize for what you said. In straight relationships, the guy is always wrong, and the quicker you realize that mind set, the quicker you will be able to get back with her, and the longer you will go without a fight. Relationships are also about compromise, and sometimes, you have to compromise your feelings to get it to work. :P Oh, I'm not actually saying the girl is alway right, but that is the mind set they seem to have, and they seem to find ways to always win the argument, it is not really worth the argument 98% of the time. :P

I hope I helped. :D