Its over

[Paladino]

My girlfriend dumped me tonight, I lied to her about something semi serious and I guess I deserve it. I also found out something else, a month or two ago a rumour went around about her having sex with another boy while she was going out with me I asked her about it, she said no and I believed her but also tonight I got told it wasnt a lie she actually did do it but I dont know what to believe. Anyway about the dumping, she basically found out I lied called me an arsehole and basically said I was dumped. We were going out for 4 months and 9 days. I love her so much and I just feel so so bad.

[Zazu]

You two obviously didn't have a long-lasting connection then - it wasn't meant to be.

Sorry to sound blunt, but from experience, you can either sit there and mope about what happened or realise that the past is the past. Cherish the good memories you two had but don't hold any bitterness for her. Just move on.

[Scotland]

Sorry to hear about that dude, but clearly if she's been sleeping with other guys wile going out with you then she has no right to be calling you the arsehole.. You're better off without her man, you'll find some1 just right for you.

It's tuff dude, but the best thing you can do is try and forget.

[Paladino]

yeah but what if she never slept with that other guy ? what am i supposed to do then ?

[Zazu]

yeah but what if she never slept with that other guy ? what am i supposed to do then ?

Either keep worrying like you seem to be which won't help at all or give yourself a kick up the arse and move on.

[Paladino]

Either keep worrying like you seem to be which won't help at all or give yourself a kick up the arse and move on.

Well surely you cant expect me to get over her after one night ?

[karl]

No, you won't get over it in one night, but you will when you move on.

[Zazu]

Well surely you cant expect me to get over her after one night ?

Nope, I'm not saying that, I'm just saying that being mopey won't help - don't dwell on what may or may not have happened, don't think about the bad bits of the past. Just remember the good memories and move on to better things :)

[DanielBoy]

There is never room for lieing in a relationship. I don't like relationships with chicks anymore, because in an argument, they say shit like they had sex with a guy, she probably didn't, just to kick you below the belt, just to win the argument. If it wasn't serious, and if she feels the same way about you, she shouldn't have dumped you. If you really want her back, you have to talk to her.

I hope I helped. :D