Showing off

[KFC_Kid]

Today I went swimming with an 11 year old and when we were getting changed I was showing off my load and he went wow what's them hairs and why it enormous then he asked is there something wrong with it I said no and he was getting ready and took his trunks off. He had a boner and I laughed how small it was and he said will it grow so I taught him about it. Now I feel guilty for showing off should I ?

[Scotland]

I think it was abit harsh to laugh at him tbh dude. :/

[MrMan]

I think it was abit harsh to laugh at him tbh dude. :/

Agreed

[Ender]

Well, he's 11, so he was bound t start learning about it in a year or so anyways. Though with you laughing at him, you may have sent the wrong message.

[karl]

Poor kid! It was a bit unfair

[KFC_Kid]

well it was more of a snigger as it looked out of proportion

[Ender]

Then why should you feel guilty?

[hung drummer guy]

laughing was probably the only thing to feel ashamed about

[beedubs]

you shouldnt have showed it off, but i guess you kindof made up for it by teaching him about puberty and stuff.

[Giles]

Well purposefully getting naked around a 11yo just to show off your genitals is a bit odd to start. Then laughing at his penis just because it's smaller than yours and probably the right size for his age isn't right either.

So yeah, I'd say it is wrong and you should feel slightly guilty.

[briefsguy]

He was open to it, so I guess not. But you shouldn't laugh at people because they aren't as big as you.

[nick]

Its pretty strange to go out of your way to show yourself to younger boys. There's nothing wrong with changing together and seeing each other but you make it sound like something more deliberate than that. I take a slightly different view to the guys above, I dont think its up to you to decide to give puberty lessons to 11 year olds. I'm not saying its done any harm but just wouldnt advise you to make a habit of it.

[Ramiro]

That wouldn't be nice of you

[theK]

hes only 11 anyways. once he gets into puberty, his penis will grow. (who knows, maybe he ll be laughing at yours soon:) )

[Billy15]

its not something i would do but kids do play around and he was obviously curious but making fun of him is something you shouldnt have done. even if the poor kid is curious,
you've probably made him feel bad about himself now and thats not cool at all.

[SWMG]

Yeah it was unfair

[emt.Cam]

I might as well be honest with you too. You certainly made this sound a bit odd that you'd be showing off your "load" to an 11 year old boy. Although you're only 13, there's a fine line because puberty doesn't start at the same age in every male -in this case- That's where the line is, the young boy obviously hasn't started it but will soon; yet and you being 13, have. So there's the line, you starting puberty at a younger age have a jump on him, but not by much at all. He may very well only being saying it's "enormous" because he hasn't started yet when it you may not even being "enormous" compared to others your age and others, like us. Secondly, I don't believe it's your place to teach anyone how puberty works when you're so young and inexperienced. You should have directed him to his parents. I find it detestable that you laughed at an 11 year old boy for having a smaller penis than you when he hasn't even started puberty yet.

[The Dark Lord]

he is only 11 so he has lots of time to grow

[KFC_Kid]

I might as well be honest with you too. You certainly made this sound a bit odd that you'd be showing off your "load" to an 11 year old boy. Although you're only 13, there's a fine line because puberty doesn't start at the same age in every male -in this case- That's where the line is, the young boy obviously hasn't started it but will soon; yet and you being 13, have. So there's the line, you starting puberty at a younger age have a jump on him, but not by much at all. He may very well only being saying it's "enormous" because he hasn't started yet when it you may not even being "enormous" compared to others your age and others, like us. Secondly, I don't believe it's your place to teach anyone how puberty works when you're so young and inexperienced. You should have directed him to his parents. I find it detestable that you laughed at an 11 year old boy for having a smaller penis than you when he hasn't even started puberty yet.

Excuse me but I know lots about puberty and I am big for my age intact any age 6.5hard 5.5" soft also for u who moaned about me showing off we were getting changed after swimming and a took my time with no clothes on.

[Ender]

Excuse me but I know lots about puberty and I am big for my age intact any age 6.5hard 5.5" soft also for u who moaned about me showing off we were getting changed after swimming and a took my time with no clothes on.

I was showing off my load

Sounds alot like bragging to me....

[Silentkink]

Well purposefully getting naked around a 11yo just to show off your genitals is a bit odd to start. Then laughing at his penis just because it's smaller than yours and probably the right size for his age isn't right either.

So yeah, I'd say it is wrong and you should feel slightly guilty.

I would agree with this completely because he is younger then you and only 11 he will more then likely have a smaller penis then you because he hasn't stared puberty so why would you laugh at that. I also find what you did very gross and you sound like a pervert showing off to younger kids and then laughing at them weird and you should be guilty.

[MisterE]

poor guy :( dont laugh at small people EVER! it isnt a nice thing to do!

[Giles]

Excuse me but I know lots about puberty and I am big for my age intact any age 6.5hard 5.5" soft also for u who moaned about me showing off we were getting changed after swimming and a took my time with no clothes on.

You specifically asked for our opinion and then you complain when we give it to you. Personally I'm not going to talk shit just to make you feel better about something you did that, in my opinion, is wrong.

[CestDan]

Naaaa. I mean, he was only 11. I bet that when he gets older he would have something to show off ;D

[Spoookster]

This is just funny LMAO

[Judas]

No harm teaching him, but laughing at him about his size isn't very supportive...

[zach_15]

I show off in locker room all the time.

[emt.Cam]

Excuse me but I know lots about puberty and I am big for my age intact any age 6.5hard 5.5" soft also for u who moaned about me showing off we were getting changed after swimming and a took my time with no clothes on.
I'm certainly not going to argue with you; although, I easily could. You're the one that asked for VT's opinion and that's what you're getting. You're only 13, you have A LOT to learn regardless of how much you "think" you know. By the way, you just specifically stated "and took my time with no clothes on" so you're trying to show off to an 11 year old who hasn't even hit puberty. I'm sorry bub, but it looks as though you lost this one.

[TopGear]

Personally I would never show a kid a that age. Laughing probly wasn't needed either.

[obknobe]

Making fun of ANYONE is unkind. If you see him again, admit you were wrong in laughing and tell him what you should have at the time: "Don't worry, it will grow and grow and grow." Try to be nice no matter who you are around. Try to make people feel good; not bad.

[MykeSoBe]

Laughing at penis size in general is just wrong; you did it in front of his face and not behind his back but that doesn't really count here. It seemed like it was a playful giggle laugh. But I guess you did teach him a little about puberty and stuff. So it balances it all out.

[NeverLetGo]

Well purposefully getting naked around a 11yo just to show off your genitals is a bit odd to start. Then laughing at his penis just because it's smaller than yours and probably the right size for his age isn't right either.

So yeah, I'd say it is wrong and you should feel slightly guilty.

Exactly... You didn't really have a right to laugh or snigger or whatever you did... He is still learning and his hormones are probably just starting to kick in a bit, so you could give him the wrong message. Laughing is the only thing you should feel ashamed of.

[DanielBoy]

The laughing was probably unnecessary, he probably already had a self esteem drop by knowing he was smaller. As to educating him, you should not feel any guilt.

[Babobobo]

That's cruel I truly apologize but you're a sick person

[taylor115]

some ppl are just more comfortable showing their stuff to others but some keep it to them selves as much as possible

[neigh]

should not have made fun of the kid.
he was just asking questions.
bet all of us asked question at 11.
and still do.
give that kid a few more years and he might b laughing at u and saying hay look guys
philip has a small one --- lol just in fun neigh

[crazycoller]

It didn't seem wrong but you shouldn't have laughed. Think how big you were at 11...

[Joeyy7892]

yeah man, laughing at an eleven year old is a pretty dickmove.