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Paladino
July 28th, 2010, 07:02 PM
Hey so last night my girlfriend spent like two hours trying to dump me but within those two hours she done it twice she dumped me once then we started goin back out and I made her laugh and stuff and then she said "but seriously" and then I said ok and I just hugged her told her how much I loved her and said that I would miss her lots and she kisses me in the nose and I love it when she does that but last night she done it and I burst into tears because she was dumping me and then I accepted it and she had to go and so did I but I walked away crying and so did she, then she said my name and I turned round and she said come her and she gave me a hug and she said she would come in for me tomorrow and I said but why you just dumped me and she said Forget all this happened.

Though I think she only said that to make me happy and she only stayed with me because she felt sorry for me, I dont think she loves me that much anymore but I love her too bits I dont know what to do, Im not 100% sure that she doesnt love me anymore so she might still but I just think that, has anyone ever went through a similar problem ? I was alsmost crying in my friends house tonight over it, can anyone try and help me find a way round this ??

Sage
July 28th, 2010, 09:21 PM
Shit, man. She sounds terribly fickle. I don't know about breaking up all together but I think it sounds like you two should take a bit of a break from eachother.

Rutherford The Brave
July 28th, 2010, 09:44 PM
Maybe its not meant to be, it might be worht another try it might not be. I think you'd be alright trying to see it through over time, but to be honest your better off just finding something new. It'll hurt, but its life.

JayTea
July 29th, 2010, 03:42 AM
As Deschain said, she sounds fickle. I would take some times off, not sure how long, and then talk to her because absence does make the heart grow fonder. It could go both ways but that gives her time to think about things.

Art_dude
July 29th, 2010, 09:34 AM
Yea, I think what you and her BOTH need is some time apart. She's clearly confused about where she stands with you, and having a break can giver her the necessary time to get her bearings. It's NOT o.k. for her to play this game of changing her mind back and forth.

DanielBoy
August 6th, 2010, 09:21 PM
If she was crying too, chances are she cares for you deaply, not feels sorry for you. Love doesn't really fade, but the spark that makes you two really happy together does. If she doesn't care for you, then she wouldn't have gotten back together with you. I feel like she was just a little bit confused, maybe she wasn't having as much fun anymore, or something like that. :) I think she still loves you, so don't do anything rash. :P

I hope I helped. :D