Jesus christ.

[whodunit]

I have not done it in like 2 weeks. I was already wanting it and thinking about it and I was just told my mom has cancer. I think i am going to break, i dont even know i need the relief.

[nick]

I'm sorry about your mum. Dont give up hope just yet, what sort of cancer is it? You cutting wont change anything, if she finds out it would just be one more thing for her to deal with. If you need someone to rant to or just listen let me know.

Nick

[Scarface]

:hug:
You've made it two weeks. That's so good why give up now? I know your mom wouldn't like it if she knew. You have to be there for her no matter what. Cancer is a very hard thing to deal with, especially if it's a loved and very close member in your family. Though cutting never helps and of your problems. It's an addiction and you have managed to stop which is so great. Why give up now what you have gained? Be there for your mom. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm always here. Vm me anytime. I really hope things get better for you, you can do it, I believe in you.

[whodunit]

what is vm?

[delta]

Two weeks is good. Don't throw it away.

what is vm?Visitor Message, messages posted on a user's profile.

[Babobobo]

Two weeks, that's amazing. Don't throw all of your effort away. My mom had cancer as well. I was losing so much hope in myself but you also have to understand that everyone's close relations pass eventually, and it's never happy, not for anyone. This isn't just happening to you. There could be so many worse situations that could have happened, that actually HAVE happened to some people's loved ones, but they get through it over long periods of time.

As for the cancer, it can be cured, my mom's was. She's perfectly fine now, she runs miles every day and goes on roller coasters and everything. It's good that they discovered it in your mom at least. Don't lose hope yet my dear lad!

[georgiamay]

i'm sorry to here about your mum, but 2 weeks is brilliant! don't throw it away. Cancer can be cured, i've had a grandad, an uncle and an aunt with cancer, and all three have pulled through and are recovering. i know it seems really hard at the moment, but it will get better, there's no point hurting yourself if you know it will get better. This might sound harsh, but cutting won't change anything, if you cut your mum will still have cancer. the only thing that can change that is treatment, and she can get better.

i know it's hard to stop, i'm going through that now, but 2 weeks is excellent, and no one wants to start from square one again. VM me if you ever need to talk, i'm always here.

[Mike321]

Well done for making it two weeks, thats really good.
And i'm really sorry to hear about your mom, but I think cutting will make this worse for you and your mom..
Both my great aunts died from cancer so I know its not an easy thing to deal with, the best things you can do is support your mom through this, and help her get better.
Feel free to PM me if you ever want to talk