so theres this guy...

[Travtheman95]

that i barley know and he is texting me saying he likes me. He told my friend that he even jerks off to me apparently. So he like tells me hes in love with me and want to "do stuff" with me. To be honest i dont really like him but hes kinda sexy and we might get together and "do stuff". But he says hes in love with me since weve been textin alot and he even sent me pics of him naked. So do any of you think it would be bad if i got with him to like do bjs or hjs even tho i dont like him and just want sex?

[XpopularX]

i dont think its wrong. Thats the way ppl r or life go's. Don't be the person who has sex and bails in the morning. If the sex is mutual then its ok.

[Scarface]

Well if that's really what you two would like to do then sure go for it, but just be friends with him afterward so he doesn't feel like he did anything wrong. It doesn't have to be a relationship, but just to as the OP said above "bail afterward" because it takes a lot of guts to say to a guy (If you're a guy) that you like him. Just do what you think is best. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.

[nick]

To my way of thinking its about whether you are honest with him up front. If you make it clear that you dont love him but dont mind playing around then thats fine if he wants it on those terms. But if you let him believe that you love him just so that you can get laid then its not so good.

[Billy15]

OK this is just how I feel and will probably be bizzare to some of you but hey you asked right?

If I don't like a guy (no matter how cute he is) then hell no I'm not going to carw in bed with him or give him a b/j just so I can say that I had sex with anothetr guy. Heck, you can have sex with yourself without taking the chance of std's, aids or losing your self respect. Maybe i'm weird (I dont care) but if i dont love the guy, im not having sex with him because a little sex sure isn't worth me losing myself in the process. Like i said, thats just the way I think and im not judging anyone else.

[Babobobo]

To begin, TAKE ANY EVIDENCE OF HIS NUDITY PICTURES OFF OF YOUR PHONE! It is very illegal, it's considered possession of child pornography, unless of course he and you are above the legal age.

Secondly, if he is 'in love' with you, then he might be looking for a close and possibly long term relationship. If you're only planning on 'doing stuff' with him then you might be going down the wrong path. He seems pretty interested in you, but I wouldn't know much more since I'm not in your position.

[beedubs]

maybe try to get to know him first, if he doesnt seem like a guy you would date, dont do it with him. if you do start to like him, then maybe you can go farther. i agree with billy, dont just jump in bed with him for the hell of it

[MrMan]

OK this is just how I feel and will probably be bizzare to some of you but hey you asked right?

If I don't like a guy (no matter how cute he is) then hell no I'm not going to carw in bed with him or give him a b/j just so I can say that I had sex with anothetr guy. Heck, you can have sex with yourself without taking the chance of std's, aids or losing your self respect. Maybe i'm weird (I dont care) but if i dont love the guy, im not having sex with him because a little sex sure isn't worth me losing myself in the process. Like i said, thats just the way I think and im not judging anyone else.

Nicely put Billy, I aggree with you 100%

[Zazu]

To my way of thinking its about whether you are honest with him up front. If you make it clear that you dont love him but dont mind playing around then thats fine if he wants it on those terms. But if you let him believe that you love him just so that you can get laid then its not so good.

I second this.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

its not wrong, but you should make sure you tell him how you feel and that you are not interested in him other than having sexual encounters

[DanielBoy]

Shaky ground, this is part of the reason I don't like chicks, no respect for your feeling. I don't think he really "loves" you, maybe just a really big crush. Talk to him and say you really are not in love with him, and you might at some point, but you need to get to know him better, if you want. I really just don't think you should lead him on to get sex, be honest and open with him, he will probably still want the sexual stuff. :P

I hope I helped. :D

[heyyitskylex]

i agree, some guy did the same thing to me and i was going to do it and then days ago i found out the truth that he never liked me and only was playing an act to get me into bed

[Deathwingo0o]

Roflmao. I would never give up my ass to a stranger who I don't love. Save your arse virginity for sum1 who really means sth to u.