This is why I hate alot of people.

[green]

Ok so my girlfriend and I don't get to see each other outside of school very often. So I try to hang with her outside of school and her friends are complete arseholes. One of them likes to kick me all the time. My gf is always making jokes about my friends being gay and yet I say one thing about her friends she's all up I'm mah grill about her friends being better than me. So what should I do is she worth it or am I just screwing myself over?

[Paladino]

You should tell her and her friends how annoying it is, if they dont listen ask to hang around with your girlfriend just by yourself and if she only wants to hang around with you when her friends then you will need to think very hard on what you want to do, because if you just dump her then you could regret it but if you dont it will be a pain in the ass for you at school.

[Kaius]

Tbh someone that allows her friends to do that to her boyfriend isn't worth the trouble, considering she's doing it too. It sounds like she doesn't appreciate you that much. No girlfriend should be telling her other half her friends are better than him, so tbh I think you're better off finding someone that does appreciate you. I mean yeah, talking to her about it could help, but if she does this in the first place, is she really that gooder girlfriend to you?

[Death]

Ok so my girlfriend and I don't get to see each other outside of school very often. So I try to hang with her outside of school and her friends are complete arseholes. One of them likes to kick me all the time. My gf is always making jokes about my friends being gay and yet I say one thing about her friends she's all up I'm mah grill about her friends being better than me. So what should I do is she worth it or am I just screwing myself over?

Sounds like she's just pissing around with you. If that's the case, then I'm not sure if it would be appropriate to view her as a girlfriend. Try ignoring and avoiding her. If she really cared about you, she would then want to talk to you and would also listen to you if you spoke to her about it.

[cooldude123]

I was in a similar situation but my girlfriend actually defended me and didn't let her friends do anything against me.

You really need to just sit down and talk to her. Try to go out with just the two of you. If she doesn't, then there could be something wrong...

I hope things get sorted out fror you both :)

[kyle95]

I don't think it has anything to do with whether she's "worth it". Any relationship if you want it to work is worth the effort. There are obvious personal issues you must overcome. Clearly your friends are not to her maturity level. There's no reason to dump them either, but you may have to separate them from her. Don't be comparing your friends to hers or her feelings for her friends, you're separate people with different backgrounds. What's important is to find common ground and to build on that - perhaps introducing friends that early in the relationship may not be such a good idea.

[DanielBoy]

I guess it really depends on how old you are, but you just need to talk with her. Tell her if you hang with her out side of school, you just want it to be the two of you. From what it sounds like, neither of you like each others friends, and that is hard, but to make it work, you just need to have time for just the two of you. If you are like 12 or 13, which it kind of sounds that way because most girls stop kicking their friends BFs in High School, and it isn't anything to worry about, she is just jealous. Good Luck. :P

I hope I helped. :D

[Kitty Purry]

To me it seems like she really dosent like you. I wouldnt expect her to break off her friendship with her friends. But I think she should say "hey can you guys be a liittle nicer to my BF?". But if i were you I'd break up with her..:)

[Aves]

Tbh someone that allows her friends to do that to her boyfriend isn't worth the trouble, considering she's doing it too. It sounds like she doesn't appreciate you that much. No girlfriend should be telling her other half her friends are better than him, so tbh I think you're better off finding someone that does appreciate you. I mean yeah, talking to her about it could help, but if she does this in the first place, is she really that gooder girlfriend to you?

QFT!

My best friend had a girlfriend who's friends were total assholes to him too...