For gays or bisexual people only

[cristian123]

Do you guys have boy friends? Like is it or was it hard to find someone that you could start a relationship with? Cuz where I live there are no bisexual people here or gays. And I know that I cNt start a relationship where I live,

[Vurtine]

Go to a gay bar, you'll find someone someday :)

[ShatteredWings]

Go to a gay bar, you'll find someone someday :)

The OP is 15, smart one.

Also, there aren't many girls on the 'net, but don't discount the possibility of gay/bi girls on here too :P

My area it's difficult to find a boyfriend (hell, I can't get a girlfriend here). Just look for friends, relationships can come out of it.

[Scarface]

I wouldn't go to a gay bar... That is not the place to go for a "relationship" nor exactly to find people your age that maybe gay or bi. maybe you could look up some LGBT meetings in your area. I'm gay myself and I know it's not easy to really talk with people your age about this, but LGBT meets you will find people your age that are gay and bi. That you could possibly talk with and develop a relationship.

[CaliKid24]

yea i agree with the guy above me. and no i havent been able to, i know some but there not my type. ive only found girlfriends.

[cristian123]

Noo I didn't mean in a gay bar :p
I ment near where you live

[nick]

I expect there are other bi or gay guys where you live, you just dont know who they are. I dont have bfs in real life because I'm not out and that would be something of a give away really.

[Bougainvillea]

There are plenty of LGBT groups here.

Though I can't say I would ever go to one. I find it weird that people would, but that's just me. I have multiple gay, and bisexual friends. And know of plenty others.

Yeah, it wouldn't be hard unless you/I want to keep it on the down-low.

[Deadalus]

It wasnt hard for me :p although i went to a school that was 70% gay or bi XD it was the coolest place ever!

[Jason Ruechel]

It wasnt hard for me :p although i went to a school that was 70% gay or bi XD it was the coolest place ever!

That much hey? Damn lucky is what you are.

[MisterE]

there arnt many openly gay and bi people where i live, so it would be very hard to find someone to get into a relationship with :/

[KylerJerksoff]

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[Tavi]

I've had one bf. It didn't work out. After that I noticed that finding other gay or bi guys in my town is hard.

[beedubs]

well i have a bf, but there are afew gays in my school. also we have a place near me called LIGALY where gays and lesbians go to hang out and dance and stuff so i can go there if i was looking

[Billy15]

Same here Chris and you and I have discussed how similar our situations and living conditions are. The thing that I wonder though is, if you and I can't tell anyone because we're afraid of how we will be treated, then perhaps there are others (maybe many) in our own school and town who feel exactly the same and can't tell anyone either. I know several boys in my school that I wonder about (by the way they look, dress, act) but if they are gay, Id say that they are as afraid as we are.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

love happens when you dont expect it, and from people you might not expect it, so just make friends, and yea its hard to find someone, but once you have them its an amazing feeling

[DanielBoy]

Same issue here. I found that the best bet is a Long Distance Relationship. I am working on one now, and it will be my first same sex relationship, although I have had over 50 straight relationships. I find guys easier to get along with, funner to be with, understand you better, and are easier for you to understand. Chicks play too many games, and don't understand your emotions. :D

[cristian123]

there arnt many openly gay and bi people where i live, so it would be very hard to find someone to get into a relationship with :/


Join the club :p

[TheFame]

Do you guys have boy friends? Like is it or was it hard to find someone that you could start a relationship with? Cuz where I live there are no bisexual people here or gays. And I know that I cNt start a relationship where I live,

well apparently im gay..but i dont really want to have a relationship with a boy, more wid a girl..

but gay people are all hiding that their gay. maybe a guy you like might tell you one day hes gay.

[The Joker]

No I don't.

But I probably could if I wanted to. Trust me, there are gays where you live. Google "Gay youth *your city name*" and you'll be surprised.

[Captor K]

I'm still taking baby steps on my way out of the closet. Once I start college in less than a week, I plan on blowing up the closet and never going back. <bad word> that! So because I've been closeted, I have no been in a relationship with a guy. And because I refused to date and use a girl to pass off as "straight" I've never been with a woman either. I might do a lot of things wrong, but I am NOT going to use a woman so that I can simply fit in. She deserves love, devotion, and attention, and sexual satisfaction - things I can't give as a gay man.

I'm hoping to find a guy I can date in college. I won't get my hopes up, but I'll keep my eyes peeled open for love. If I am that lucky, I'll try to make the best effort I can to be with him, but I know it'll be hard because I'll be working two jobs among other things. If he's a good guy, I'll try to keep him around. Crossing my fingers on that one lol.

[DanielBoy]

love happens when you dont expect it, and from people you might not expect it, so just make friends, and yea its hard to find someone, but once you have them its an amazing feeling

I found someone, there really are not too many gay or bisexual guys at my school. I actually came out to him, he has been this guy I've liked for years, and I've always had a feeling. He came out to me soon after. He is really closed in, and isn't open. He just doesn't want bring it to the next level. He says he is bi, but I'm like 90% sure he is gay, and it confuses me even more, because he says he is married to his "best" friend, a chick, but they don't seem like a couple, but they leave lovey comments on each others walls, but then the most I've seen them do is hug. It just confuses me. He also told me to forget him, and that I was emotionally compromised. I really think he isn't ready, but ugh, I like him SOOO much. IDK. :P Kind of off topic, but if I see myself with someone, it is him, it is weird. :P

[Brandon K]

just ask around

[bluedreams]

It was easy for me to find my girlfriend, for the main fact that i was very open about being gay/lesbian (which ever term you prefer) She simply came up to me one day, pulled me to one side and asked me out! However had it not been the fact that my girlfriend had already known me and was a friend, I don't think I would have found a girlfriend as easierly as anyone around my area that is gay tend to keep it to themselves. I think the easiest way is not to go out looking for a relationship, rather a frindship the rest will just follow.

[ShatteredWings]

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