Scared :(

[Paladino]

My girlfriend is going on holiday, its just under 2 months away, I know it seems too far away to be worrying about right now but I am scared that other boys while she is on holiday will try and do stuff with her, and I dont like the fact that I worry about this so much but I just do Im just so paranoid about other boys trying to do stuff because one of my friends did before and so did another boy, I also dont like the idea of her going into clubs (she is going for 16th birthday) and dancing because other boys will try and dance with her and I just dont want them to get too close to her and I dont want her cheating on me because she could cheat on me so many times while shes over there and I wouldnt know a thing which makes it even more worse. Its all I think about, me being a paranoid wreck and all, does anyone know what I should do ??

[Babobobo]

Not to worry my friend, she wouldn't go out with you if she was planning on being with guys all the time. And don't worry about clubs, she's not in love with the guys there, she just wants to have fun. She's not going to make out with them, if she wanted to she would've broken up with you, and she didn't.

Don't worry! just text her every night, possibly give her the 'guilt trip' if you know what I mean. Then she wouldn't even think twice about touching another man.

[Scarface]

Maybe you could have a talk with her and let her know how much you love her. It's always good to let the person know that you love them. Then when she leaves make sure you keep contact that way you can check up on her and also let her know yet again how much you love her. It should sink in and it should make her aware inside that she's taken.

I wouldn't be too worried about it, even though it's true some guys are like that doesn't mean she will.I think if she was really cheating she wouldn't want that much to do with you. Just trust in her. if you can. Just keep in contact and tell her you love her.

[Paladino]

Thanks for the advice, I will.

[Sage]

Don't worry! just text her every night, possibly give her the 'guilt trip' if you know what I mean. Then she wouldn't even think twice about touching another man.

If the only thing preventing your lover from cheating on you is the occasional guilt trip, then perhaps that's a sign that neither of you are all that trustworthy.