pretty sure but still not 100%

[celine93]

Hey everyone,

I don't know if there are any girls on here (the few posts I've read were by boys) but I have always been pretty sure I'm gay, I've only ever had one boy friend, oppsed to my 2 semi serious relationships with girls.
I've also kissed more girls and I just feel generally more attracted to women.
However, I still find some men attractive; but not in the same way I do with women.
With women it's really sexual, with the men I think they are attractive but in a less sexual way.
Another big factor for me is my slight fear of men. I grew up with an alcoholic abusive father and so I've always sought the company of women and if I ever go out with the girls and bump into a man, regardless of how attractive he Is to me I could never do anything with him because I don't feel comfortable around men.
But put in the same scenario with a woman and I'm much more comfortable.
Also, all of my crushes are on women.
And I don't think it's 'experimenting' with men, because I have no urge to experiment sexually.
Am I totally gay or is it just that I haven't found a boy I'm comfortable with?

Thanks for any help. :)
Take care,

Kate

[Paladino]

Well since you find both guys and girls attractive you are most likeyl bi-sexual. As of the problem with being around men I think it is because you havent found a guy you are comfortable round. Good Luck finding a guy that you will be comfortable round :)

[XpopularX]

I think you cant put all your trust in a man, they way your father was or is. really I think your gay but you can still muster up the feelings for a guy. You will find a guy to care for you but might not feel the sexual tension. So you see cute guys but there in your perefeal vision not your main like girls.





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[celine93]

Hey, guys. Thanks for the replies :)
I really appreciate it, I could use some direction as to who I am.
I do take on board what you've both said, but in my heart of hearts I think I am more likely to end up with a woman.
I was just wondering if I was gay or bi, but I suppose I could really answer that myself; for me there isn't any comparison, I would choose women everytime.
Thanks for the replies though. :)

Kate

[celine93]

Hey, guys. Thanks for the replies :)
I really appreciate it, I could use some direction as to who I am.
I do take on board what you've both said, but in my heart of hearts I think I am more likely to end up with a woman.
I was just wondering if I was gay or bi, but I suppose I could really answer that myself; for me there isn't any comparison, I would choose women everytime.
Thanks for the replies though. :)

Kate