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Vurtine
July 26th, 2010, 04:46 AM
Sexuality
Okay so for some time now I've been imagining doing things with boys. But when I've pictured it in my mind, I can't do it. I do have like little crushes on some guys but that's only if they are really good looking. I can sometimes imagine myself doing little things but I wouldnt do them In reality. But on the other hand, I do get turned on by girls and I can imagine myself dating one (but I wouldnt feel comfortable dating anyone from any gender). I do prefer guys to girls, but I couldnt do anything to a guy, only to girls.

Drugs & Alcohol
So I do smoke now and then, and I started in January of 2010. I've recently also tried weed (which is really nice). I also started to get lazy on school work and failed to hand in any work at school. I also drink alot when I'm at house parties. (I was 14) and I fell in a bush and fell asleep and I wouldnt wake up for around an hour in my mates garden.

Mood Swings
I sometimes feel like smacking people in the face if they are acting really immature around me or if they are being childish to annoy me purposely. I cba with my family anymore because all they do is moan at me constantly and I just want them all to f**k off and leave me to do what I want and leave me to think about things and let me have time on my own.

Body Changes
I've grown quite a bit of pubic hair and I can see more sprouting. My penis has recently grown and I've grown massively over the past months. I went from a shoe size of 7 to a 9/10 (UK Mens Sizes) and I've lost weight from growing taller. I also sweat alot more and do get areas which smell more than they did before I started all of these changes.

Is this normal? Because i'm kinda confused at the moment....

Please hilight anything which you think is normal or a worry.

Thanks :)

nick
July 26th, 2010, 04:53 AM
All sounds pretty normal to me :)

karl
July 26th, 2010, 05:52 AM
Ever thought that getting lazy on school work, failing to hand any work at school and your mood swings might have something to do with your starting to smoke and drinking alcohol?

Vurtine
July 26th, 2010, 05:59 AM
Ever thought that getting lazy on school work, failing to hand any work at school and your mood swings might have something to do with your starting to smoke and drinking alcohol?

I don't drink very often but yeah it could have something to do with smoking yeah :)

Judas
July 30th, 2010, 09:54 PM
All sounds normal, but I'm worried about the alcohol and smoking part.

jimmy-magic
July 31st, 2010, 04:25 AM
sounds all good man . peace .

Spoookster
July 31st, 2010, 05:20 AM
dude.... Stop doing that like what for r u drinking and smking ? Just to show everybody else how cool and mature u are. UR WRONG. If u wanna be mature.. don't do that stuff and try to think for 5 ,minutes b u do something. puberty has nothing to do with it.

DanielBoy
July 31st, 2010, 03:24 PM
Yup sounds all normal. However, the drinking and smoking is not because of puberty, the peer pressure is what causes that. Also, you might either be bi or curious. If you don't like girls more than guys, you might be bi. Just stick though it, if you do everything right, you will have a blast. Oh, and stop smoking, weed and cigarettes, they fuck with your health; and keep in mind that drinking is fun, but don't binge, keep your limits in mind.

Hope this helps. :D