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xhelgrindx
July 26th, 2010, 02:16 AM
Im thinking that im going to send her flowers and take her out to dinner and go to the movies and wash her car for her birthday and then for her 6 month im thinking im gonna order a blanket from walmart with our pictures on them and i was thinking a ring. What does a promise ring exactly mean?
nachtspiegel
July 26th, 2010, 02:59 AM
A promise ring is just that... a promise.
In my eyes, it means that you're not gonna up and bounce.
It means different things to different people.
Sage
July 26th, 2010, 03:02 AM
No offense, man, but I think washing her car and getting her a photographic blanket at just six months into your relationship is really overkill. The first thing I've learned from being in a somewhat longer relationship is that the intense feelings of attraction you two have for eachother are always going to fade to some degree, and you shouldn't do amazingly elaborate things like this if you can't continuously follow up (and at sixteen, you most likely shouldn't).
Also, a promise ring is a stupid sentimental piece of garbage that you give to someone to prove that you'll stay with them because apparently taking your word for it isn't good enough. It's a dumb idea and you shouldn't waste your money, a silly ring doesn't prove anything.
xhelgrindx
July 26th, 2010, 10:28 AM
uh okay thanks...
So should I just get her nothing?
Is that what you would do?
Sage
July 26th, 2010, 10:36 PM
If you're asking what I would do, for my girlfriend's birthday, I'd probably get her something she likes without getting bent out of shape trying to make it incredibly romantic. But hey, that's just me, I don't really care for romantic emotional rubbish. As for a six months anniversary? No, I wouldn't get her anything. Six months isn't a very long time.
xhelgrindx
July 27th, 2010, 12:31 AM
If you're asking what I would do, for my girlfriend's birthday, I'd probably get her something she likes without getting bent out of shape trying to make it incredibly romantic. But hey, that's just me, I don't really care for romantic emotional rubbish. As for a six months anniversary? No, I wouldn't get her anything. Six months isn't a very long time.
Okay thanks that really helped...
So I'm guessing you're not very romantic.
You should work on that.
Antares
July 27th, 2010, 01:06 AM
You can come up with any promise you want for a promise ring.
However, I think that you should probably wait for your relationship to develop (like at least a year) before you give someone a promise rings because I, and many others hate broken promises (and that has a high potential of happening).
I think dinner and a movie is a perfect 6 month anniversary thing (unless you have done it before).
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