Confused. Help.

[Erick]

Hey guys, how are you?

I saw my cousin Matt for the last time when we were almost kids and we had 13 years old, we were best friends. He moved to Florida with his family and since then he never came to visit my family.

Last week he came to visit us, he is very handsome now and we spent a wonderful week together, like the good times. The last night of his visit we were watching TV and suddenly a sex scene appeared! After that, he looked at me and we started a conversation about girls, boys and sex.

After many hours I had an incredible bulge inside my boxers and he was only with his CK briefs, I saw his erection and a lot of precum. At some point he looked at me in a sexy way and I was scared.

He is sexy, but he is my cousin. Im bi, but he is my cousin. I want to jerk with him, but he is my cousin. I did not know what to do! So told him that I was really tired and I needed to rest.

Thats when he started jerking off and moaning a little, I was so hard that I started jerking off as well. I knew he was doing it and he knew I was doing it.

Well, the thing is that my parents are going away to Canada for two weeks and I was staying alone until my aunt called to say that my cousin Matt wanted to stay here and be with me to be just fine and not alone, and of course my mom said yes. I was scared but ok with it.

But yesterday Matt sexted me! His message says: "E this is a sneak peak for next week. Enjoy."

And I am so scared!!! I will be alone with him for a long time and I like him a lot! But he is my cousin!!! Help please

[Scotland]

There is nothing wrong with j/o with him, however if he tries to come onto you sexually then you should just tell him no.

It can be difficult if you like him, but as you said you are cousins, things would just get weird.

Nip this in the bud mate, don't lead him on, if you know what i mean.

hope this helps, good luck :)

[soccer8]

alot of people do stuff with their cousins that i know of and if its alright with the both of you i say go for it if you wish too you seem like you really like him and he seems like he likes you so if your ok with it go ahead

[SWMG]

Yeah there is nothing wrong if you j/o with him I mean be thakful that you have a cousin your age cuz in don't and ones I barely see then so go ahead and spen time with him but be careful of another thing to happen right

[Erick]

Thank you for your advice. I am really freaking out here, he arrives tomorrow night and I don't know. I am supposed to tell him something about the sext? Or what?

[AMili]

Try to be maybe more reserved and don't look at all interested in anything sexual

[Silentkink]

Just tell him that you didn't like the picture that he sent you and that you will not do anything sexually with him. J/O with him in the same room is one thing, but doing things that he most likely wants to do is another and he has to stop.

[HillBillyWilly]

The good thing is that if you're 18, i don't think you can get in trouble for the sext.

[Erick]

Yep, I think Im going to delete it, but I am not sure.

[Babobobo]

Listen here,

He is your cousin. This is very very wrong and bad. It's normal to have these feelings, I mean he is a person, but trust me a little while after you'll have horrible discomfort and awkwardness and possibly want to forget each other. It's not worth it, and he's not the only hot girl/guy you'll see in your life.

[ray8806]

I think it's okay to j/o with him and stuff. But if it leads to anal or something, yea that's the time you say no. A big no. I mean, he is your cousin. I don't think it would be the wisest decision to go for oral either, unless it's like an exceptional time, which only you know that one. But other than that, I think it's fine.

[soulcrusher24]

alot of people do stuff with their cousins that i know of and if its alright with the both of you i say go for it if you wish too you seem like you really like him and he seems like he likes you so if your ok with it go ahead

I agree with that

[SWMG]

Well tell us what happends

[jjr011294]

hes u rcuz he prob want to do stuff wit u but who knows let us know how it goes

[abcd920]

i dont see a prob with it if it becomes an emtional thing then yea thats a lil weird

[MoveAlong]

What's the big deal? Some brothers jack off, some cousins jack off with each other.

Why don't you just go for it? Honestly? Maybe wait a few nights in since you have the time. He wants to do it, and it's normal for you to be scared about it. But it would probably be fun. Unfortunately, I do have to say "be safe", which is always a boner-killer. But don't get yourself in massive trouble, you know? Which is why I would say stick to jacking off.

Some people do sexual things as part of their relationship, just for fun or maybe even to connect.

As far as sexting, I am not comfortable with that. If you take a picture of yourself, infinite copies can be made of that and it will never go away. If you don't even send a picture, just text, it's still a copy of something you said and it could be used against you.

However, since you're 18, you're an adult and you have to make your own choices. And mistakes. Good luck! ;-)

[Erick]

Thank you a lot guys for your advices, he is coming tomorrow morning and my parents are leaving at the same time. I don't know what I am going to do but I've read all of your advices and I think if Matt wants to jerk off and compare I will do that with him, but I dont want more than that.

I will tell you everything, thank you again!

[SWMG]

Hey thats good yeah keep other things out just jerk and compare

[zach_15]

Just tell him how u feel.

[Scotland]

Just tell him how u feel.

Useless comment tbh...

[XpopularX]

hes ur cousin its "ok" u just will have guilt

[DanielBoy]

If you want to do anything with him, and he feels the same way, go for it. It is not insest, and it isn't like you are going to get him pregnant, so go for it; it is all up to you, if you feel it is wrong, then don't do anything, but if you are only worried other people may think it is wrong, then go for it, and don't tell anybody. ;)

[Judas]

If you are really uncomfortable with this situation you are in, confront him. Tell him that this feels wrong. If you two are simply masturbating, it wouldn't be that much of a big deal. But do NOT cross the line. If you go further, your relationship can be altered and even lost. He is family. Doing anything more would be incestuous. But in the end, what matters most, is yourself. Do you want to do this? Understand what you want and don't want, and act on that.