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AMili
July 25th, 2010, 10:28 AM
Hey. I'm 14 yo and about to be a freshman. My balls have dropped and I've had pubes for awhile but I haven't hit any big growth spurts and my voice barely ever cracks. Also I have no signs of armpit hair. All my friends have fully gone through puberty though. HELP!

Kaius
July 25th, 2010, 10:31 AM
Sounds like you're a late one. Try not to worry, everyone is different. I didn't start puberty until i was nearly 15, my voice still hasn't fully broken. Its just gonna take a little while - Don't worry :)

nick
July 25th, 2010, 10:52 AM
At 14 you're not really late, just a bit behind maybe but the fact that you have pubes shows the process has started and all you can do is wait for it to take its own course. Its just natural, nothing to worry about.

AMili
July 25th, 2010, 10:53 AM
Yeah. The voice thing worries me the most cuz some people younger than me have deep voices and I do plays and they need guys to sing the low parts but I can't

kdddd
July 25th, 2010, 10:55 AM
Xander, dont worry, you are just a late bloomer, you will go though puberty sooner or later, and once you start you might wish you didnt have to go through it lol, i have question for you, can you cum yet? thats a big step in puberty so if you can cum you should start growing pit hairs and stuff soon

nick
July 25th, 2010, 10:57 AM
Yeah. The voice thing worries me the most cuz some people younger than me have deep voices and I do plays and they need guys to sing the low parts but I can't
Nothing you can do to speed it up. I sing in choirs and some of the boys are still singing the top part when they are 16, its rare but it happens.

AMili
July 25th, 2010, 10:59 AM
I can pre cum but it's very cloudy. I can squirt

nick
July 25th, 2010, 11:04 AM
I can pre cum but it's very cloudy. I can squirt
I read that in the other thread, its not precum, its cum, and if you can squirt cum thats obviously one department where you're not behind.

AMili
July 25th, 2010, 11:06 AM
It's not white though. Just cloudy kinda

nick
July 25th, 2010, 11:11 AM
It's not white though. Just cloudy kinda
That's no problem, many guys start out with clear cum, then it gets cloudy when its got more sperm in it, then it gets white when is got even more sperm. Basically the higher the sperm density the whiter the cum, but no matter what it looks like if you ejaculate at orgasm its cum.

AMili
July 25th, 2010, 11:13 AM
Ok cool but then I don't precum.....

SWMG
July 25th, 2010, 11:20 AM
No that's no pre cum it's cum but as you go into puberty it will start getting thicker and whiter and about the pits don't worry you will start developing

AMili
July 25th, 2010, 11:26 AM
Alright thanks

Skeln
July 25th, 2010, 12:56 PM
If you dribble a little clear fluid before having an orgasm then that's precum.

Also, I was in the same boat as you. I'm going to be a junior now but in Freshman year I was shorter than alot of people but then I started growing. I caught up pretty fast.

AMili
July 25th, 2010, 01:04 PM
Yeah. I'm short but I come from a short family so I didn't worry about that but everyone has deep voices and pit hair and bigger muscles.

Silentkink
July 25th, 2010, 01:27 PM
Yeah you are just a late bloomer everything will be fine. You are just like me I didn't really start puberty until I was 14 so you should be fine.

AMili
July 25th, 2010, 01:31 PM
Alright that's encouraging and silentkink you cant pm till you've posted 100 times

cev199316
July 25th, 2010, 01:40 PM
Yup i was the same way when I was your age. I'm 17 now but when I was like 15 I hit my growth spurt and pretty much everything changed (voice, hairyness haha). you are just a late bloomer like I was and there's nothing wrong with that! :) and the "cloudy" cum is your body getting ready too produce more semen which makes the cum thicker and whiter. Hope this helped!

cev

AMili
July 25th, 2010, 01:47 PM
It did help! And it's nice to know other people have been in the same boat

cev199316
July 25th, 2010, 02:43 PM
I was so impatient with puberty when I was younger and I just wanted it to happen overnight. I then just thought to myself and said if I just wait, my body will do it in time. and then BAM! a year later pretty much everything was proportional and where its meant to be :D

GeneralCrash70
July 25th, 2010, 02:44 PM
Well, first off there's no way your friends have made it through puberty already... To answer your question, you just are developing at your own pace, youre really at a point where youre not a late bloomer, but youre just a bit slower than others, it's nothin to worry about though, at this point it's only a matter of rime before you hit the full swing of puberty... Have fun with it though and don't try to rush if you know what I mean.

AMili
July 25th, 2010, 03:21 PM
Yeah. Thanks and yeah they're not all the way through but they're further than me

soulcrusher24
July 26th, 2010, 11:30 AM
I don't think you are that late you just have to wait.lol

Judas
July 30th, 2010, 08:34 AM
Everyone's different. Don't depress yourself like that :)

Muscleteen92
July 30th, 2010, 11:04 AM
Yeah jus a late bloomer. Dont worry about it

DanielBoy
July 30th, 2010, 09:01 PM
Three thoughts. First, if you have hair and your voice cracks, you have started puberty, it just might not be your season; I do most of my growth in the spring and summer. Second, everybody develops at different rates; your friends might be big and stuff, but you will get there, just be patient. Third, your friends have not gone through puberty completely, they have just started some of the more obvious stages; you continue to grow and develop at the accelerated rate of puberty until about 18 or 19, and continue to develop a little slower until 21.

Hope this helps. :D

sammyboyy
July 30th, 2010, 09:11 PM
dude same except for the voice but everybody is different and unique and goes at there own pace so dont worry cause everything will eventually fall into place

neigh
August 10th, 2010, 11:39 PM
same here -- as u
i have not really started
no hair
nut bag seems to be a little larger
other than than -- not much
doctor said i was going to be late to reach puberty
run in the family ---