Girlfriend and friends problem

[cooldude123]

Hi again...

as you may know i have been with my girlfriend for two months now and all is good. However, once it reached the one month mark my friend noticed how all my effort was concerntrated on my girlfriend and i started to drift away from my friends. I never noticed this until it was too late and i lost my best friend. She refuses to talk to me now and she wont let me say sorry. It all started when she said i took a joke too far, and blames my girlfriend as im always with her... Things have changed and im not like that anymore but its too late... What do you think i should do as its the school holidays now...

Thanks for any help if you understand any of that ;)

[misery_business]

Go out with your friend, just go somewhere with her just as friends and explain to your gf that your best friend is important to you aswell as she is and you just want to spend a little more time with her 'cause you can't forget about everyone else just because your girlfriend is with you.
good luck :)

[Babobobo]

Tell her that you love your girlfriend and didn't know that she (your friend) felt treated badly. Tell her that you love her too and that you always want to be friends because you guys have been through a lot and have survived (blank#) long years with each other. Tell her that she needs to understand the situation youre in as well

[xhelgrindx]

Go hang out with your friend just you and her. Talk about how your feeling and tell her your sorry. Show her you care about her and your guys friendship.

[nick]

It will blow over, just give her some time, if she really is a friend she will be back.

[cooldude123]

Thanks people.

I just seriously apologised to my friend and it kinda worked.

I'll work at it so it sticks, but thanks for all the help :)