I told my cousin "stuff", now I'm regretting it.

[Enternamehere]

Alright so my cousin (who is 10) was staying over for the night (it was like midnight or something) and I asked him if he masturbated. He said he didn't know what that was so I explained female masturbation and male masturbation and orgasms. Then I told him about sex and babies and condoms and stuff and I took my porn d.v.d. that I took from my parent's bathroom some years ago and I showed it to him. And now I'm starting to wonder if what I did was a good idea or not. Advice?

[Harley Quinn]

If you didn't tell him he would have just learnt it in sex ed, around that age you start learning about all that. So, I don't think you did anything bad, think of it as you're giving him the advice because if you feel quilty, he'll start doubting what you've said and everything. Though about the porn, maybe that shouldn't have happened, but again he's at that age he's gonna be curious so it would suprise me if he was goin to watch it anyways.

[nick]

Well I dont really understand what made you do that, if he says anything to his parents it could cause some family trouble. I'm not saying it was anything terrible, its not like you touched him up or anything, but showing 10 year olds porn is not generally going to be polular with the adults.

[laker]

What are you regretting about. Are you scared he might tell his parents. Or r u just regretting ur the one who taught him.

[Enternamehere]

I'm scared he might tell his parents and I'm regretting showing him the porn (which makes up nearly 87% of it).

[zander]

yeah talking about stuff is cool ,but i thin showing him porn was not cool. i dont know i just think that is a little young to be looking at porn

[enzenzz]

you should have stopped when he said no to knowing what masturbating is if he didn't ask what it was. The rest of the stuff you told him is just too much info for a 10yo.

[Amnesiac]

around 10 is the age when I learned about that stuff, but it was in school sex-ed class. You probably told him a little too much, especially with the porn DVD. I don't know what you can really do now, it's up to him whether he tells his parents or not, and if he does you're gonna have to deal with the consequences (if there are any), which will never be the same.

[Shortkid]

I think you will probably get busted for it. A 10 year old doesn't keep things quiet and will probably tell if he gets under pressure. Good luck.

[Scotland]

If he tells and your parents try to give you into trouble id tell them not to leave bad DVD's in easy to find places like the bathroom lol.

you could also try telling him not to say anything?

[lolimbrando]

Then I would honestly....ummm I have no clue, you got your self in a bad situation. Think next time. Its ok though we all make mistakes...I make A LOT!

[keas96]

if u were just trying to be a good friend thats cool. i would have liked talking that stuff with an older cousin then. if he's 10 he would find porn on his own soon enuf thats for sure...showing him might not have been so smart.

[Chris95]

I thought that was an absolutely horrible idea. If I were you I wouldn't have even brought up any of that. Hope he doesn't tell someone.

[Milo1234]

he would have heard it from somewhere else so probably better coming from someone who he can trust

[Scotland]

he would have heard it from somewhere else so probably better coming from someone who he can trust

completely true, but unfortunatly not all adults see it like that :\

[RadioPlayer]

I think it was fine to tell him, but showing him porn might have been going a little too far.

[yoda]

Like most i think its fine to tell him about all that stuff he would hear it sometime, but porn at 10 is not the best.

[Fruit_Tart.]

why would you tell him? i mean if he actually knew what the stuff was it'd be a bit fine but either way its not right. ten year olds should experience things on their own. you shoulda gave him space or time till he was like older cuz he would prolly understand then. i dunno what to tell you but good luck with your situation.

[hung drummer guy]

well, id say you did well up until you showed him he porn, that was probably not the smartest thing to do.

[TySpeedy]

I am lucky my cousin (11) knows about that... I would actually explained him to him. Like he didn't know everytime you jerk off and orgasm, you ejaculate. So that was something new for him. xD

[Silentkink]

I am not saying it was a bad idea because he would learn it anyway, but in my opinion he is a little young to learn about that stuff. I would have explained some stuff, but I think you went a little far with showing him the porn dvd. It was a bad thing to do because in my opinion no one should really look at porn because it is degrading to women.

[TySpeedy]

Yeah... I never showed him porn. But he told me he has watched it before.. But I never showed him it. Plus I watch gay porn. Is that... degrading for men?

[Silentkink]

You do not have to ask me if it is degrading I was just giving my opinion and to be honest I wouldn't know because I never watched it, but about my point of being degrading to women I really can't say anything because I used to always watch porn also with that point about the girls they just make them do things they would never do in real sex it just makes it messed up and like I said degrading to them for what they have to do, but then I just stopped and I just fell better. Like I said it doesn't matter to me what you watch I was just giving my opinion.

[TySpeedy]

You do not have to ask me if it is degrading I was just giving my opinion and to be honest I wouldn't know because I never watched it, but about my point of being degrading to women I really can't say anything because I used to always watch porn also with that point about the girls they just make them do things they would never do in real sex it just makes it messed up and like I said degrading to them for what they have to do, but then I just stopped and I just fell better. Like I said it doesn't matter to me what you watch I was just giving my opinion.

Yeah, I know what you mean..

[Babobobo]

He was only 10, I don't think it was the best thing to do.

[Kaius]

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