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EternalPrayer
July 23rd, 2010, 10:48 PM
okay~ my bf and i have been dating for 1 1/2 month already~ we see each other 2 times a week cause we go to different schools. We talk heaps on msn and he's not calling as much anymore. I think about him all the time but i worry about him from time to time. He says i worry abit too much and i should put my trust in him.etc.

what should i do to improve our trust?

Another problem is...i don't feel nervous or butterflies when we hang out together. is that normal? o.O"

help please :(

Iron Man
July 23rd, 2010, 11:00 PM
First off, you should start seeing him more that 2 times a week. For the butterflies being nonexistent, it seems like you still have a good level of trust.

Scotland
July 24th, 2010, 08:04 PM
If he has done nothing to make you not trust him then why don't you? Also try not to be too 'clingy' it can become annoying for some guys.

However i agree with enterprise above you should try see each other more often, that might improve your trust in him :)

xhelgrindx
July 26th, 2010, 02:02 PM
I think you should develop that trust before you date someone. I wouldn't date someone i don't trust.

Babobobo
July 26th, 2010, 09:01 PM
Girls might like it, but guys don't like when girls are clingy. Give him the benefit of the doubt, there's no given reason for you to not trust him so why are you worrying so much?

As for the butterflies.., it could either be that you guys are very comfortable around each other or maybe you aren't excited about anything. Try to spice up the relationship (I don't mean that sexual-wise,) and make it enjoyable for the both of you.