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Mysterious Skin
July 23rd, 2010, 07:53 PM
Is it possible to change your sexuality if thats how you feel? I always thort i was gay and now i think im bi?

ShatteredWings
July 23rd, 2010, 08:09 PM
Sexuality can be fluid, but you can't change it out of your own desire to change

Mysterious Skin
July 23rd, 2010, 08:12 PM
No i literally think im bisexual i have feelings for guys and girls.

ShatteredWings
July 23rd, 2010, 08:31 PM
Yes i understand that. Things CAN change.

MisterE
July 23rd, 2010, 08:53 PM
you cant "change" it just by saying i wanna be bi!, sexuality is a way you feel, and feelings do change, so in that sence yes you can change it

CaliKid24
July 23rd, 2010, 09:00 PM
in simpler terms: it can change, but you have no control if/when/how it changes.

SneakBrain
July 23rd, 2010, 09:23 PM
you cant change it, but it can be a hard thing to figure out

Mysterious Skin
July 23rd, 2010, 10:18 PM
I never thaught i could have feelings for girls but then i did and it grew until it was equal to the feelings that i had for guys.

Joey15
July 23rd, 2010, 10:42 PM
Your sexuality is your choice ofcourse you can chose

Hanyo
July 24th, 2010, 02:32 AM
I agree with Joey15, you control what you do, so your sexuality is fully in your control. If you don't like the way you "feel" and want to feel differently, you CAN mentally condition yourself and change, it takes discipline though.

CaliKid24
July 24th, 2010, 02:34 AM
what hanyo said is maybe true but honestly, why change who you are?

nick
July 24th, 2010, 03:21 AM
You have no more choice over your sexuality than you do over your eye colour, its just a part of how you are. Sure you could wear coloured contacts over your eyes to make them look a different colour but underneath they would still be the same.

On the original question, yes it can fluctuate, mine does, but then I dont relieve believe in these fixed point scales straight/bi/gay or trying to live by other peoples labels.