Friend Weirdness

[confusedboy23]

I hope you guys remember me but before I made a thread about my friend, who was acting strangely or as some people say, "flirting." Now, I think you guys could be right but I'm not completely. He now has a girlfriend and has stopped the weird behaviour (which I kinda liked...) but he has been acting strangely in other ways. Recently, he has wanted me around him for a while and then he distances himself from me. He also liked it when I said, he was one of my best friends and he said, "REALLY?"

I'm not sure what's going on right now but I feel sad about him having a gf, even though I know nothing would happen between us.

[Aspiringanonymous]

It's very difficult for me to have meaningful friendships with those who are dating or actively looking, because I know that they will inevitably start to drift away from even their closest friends as soon as their new relationship begins to blossom passionately. I can't stand to see that happen, not out of jealousy or anything, but because I find it genuinely sad that they are pushing their friends - the ones that will be with you no matter what - slowly out of their sphere of awareness, often unconsciously.

It's not easy to witness, but it's something that must be accepted nonetheless. Everyone changes and grows apart at some point.

[Scotland]

Krezlyn you should be a poet if your not already :P

Back on topic, if he is a close close friend then you are bound to feel sad when he spends time with his gf instead of you but you should accept this and try and still see him when possible.