Insatiable Sex drive.

[Blkbeltteen]

The past 5 months I have had a girlfriend. I love this girl to death and what not she makes me happy and everything. I just find it hard to have that relationship where we just cuddle, Since every time we hang out.... I feel like every time we do meet.. There's an insatiable urge to just get down and dirty. I'm 17 and at the peak. I would say I'm done with puberty. However hormones are still rushing through me at an alarming rate.

I don't know whether to stop. But I cannot control myself around her, its just mother nature telling me to do and I cant stop it. Help. Please.

(Mods if this is in bad taste sorry.. Feel free to take it down or modify.)

[Kaius]

It's puberty, there's not really a lot you can do about it other than try to distract yourself from the thoughts about it. Things like that happen to all of us, hell i know its happened to me. You may also want to talk to your girlfriend about it, she might be able to help a little

[nick]

Sounds kinda normal to me to be honest. You get horny when you're with your girlfriend and have a strong urge to do something more about it. Well yep, that's a natural response to the situation. Its how you handle it that matters. So long as its not actually making you behave like a wild animal with her its fine.

[AwesomeAussie]

It's puberty and your body is being torn apart by your hormones still I know how you feel as it has happened to me.

[Babobobo]

You can still have hormones. They can change you into somewhat of a different person at times, you just got to learn to control it. If you're bored of cuddling, just try kissing. Try your best not to have sex, and if that's too difficult to resist then you can always to it "dry" if you know what I mean.

[bidude94]

It's a part of puberty, It's all normal. I have the same feelings to when I'm around some people. I just try my best to ignore it or just make out.

[Noah_101]

Its perfectly normal to have these feelings....I should know, everytime im with my g/f i start feeling the same way. We have been talking recently about eventually having sex and that just makes me even more horny when im around her. The important thing is to communicate with her and tell her how ur feeling. Also do stuff that will help keep ur mind preoccupied with other things then sex

[Silentkink]

Yeah don't worry me and my gf were like that before we broke up, but you just have to talk yourself out of having sex if you aren't ready like I had to do myself.

[soulcrusher24]

maybe talking to your GF would help

[AMili]

Maybe she feels the same way

[Judas]

Not abnormal, just try to think about something else. Try to ignore your sexual feelings.

[WakeyEr]

Its the same with me. Even on the phone talking to my girlfriend, I jsut want to jump through the phone and do SOMETHING but I cant. It is hard, but you will manage. What I did, is I jsut told her stright u and down. Its hard for me to control my self, and im sorry but i love you to much, and she was fine with it. She just said, not to expcet anything just yet. (she wasnts to wait for a bit)

[DanielBoy]

It is very hard to control those urges. I really have only one piece of advice that I think could work in your situation. If you know you are going to see her, masturbate before hand. This will release some of the sexual tension you might be feeling, and can help to partially quell the urge to have sex with her. I had a relationship built on sex, and it was fun, but there is no real relationship, it is all a shell. I find that sex needs to be kept as a kind of treat, you can indulge in it, just in moderation. If you keep it as a treat, it will make the relationship allot deeper and rewarding. :D

Hope this helps. :D

[neigh]

u r like my cousin --- horny all the time -- use a condom or make sure she is
on a pill. ask her 2 do oral sex or hand job. that is safe sex. or wank off b 4
she and u meet up , that might help some. does she have a sister? lol
b on the safe side --- i know w guy who push when he should have pull. now
he has a little girl to take care of. at age 18. he just got out of high school 2 months ago. had the girl during his senior year around christmas. his mother was pissed.
but that is normal 4 her.

[LittleMonsterMike]

be very careful i have a friend like you and he actually went to jail for rape because his girlfriend said she wanted to go all the way and half way through she changed her mind and he couldn't stop now's he's in jail so watch your self

[musclecharles79]

take it slow and see if she's want to go on try to get her to bj or hj and then if she wants to go all the way if not just stay with the cuddlin also ask slowly and if she says no just forget it happened and later she will comes to ur will and give u a
little treat
that's what I do and I always get some kind of sex in the end
also j/o b4 like some people said

[colt]

Ask her, dnt pressure her... its really up to her when the time is right. also, i dnt think ur dunn puberty yet puberty ends when (statistically) is in their early to mid 20's...