telling friend you bi

[LyDrake]

ugh... just told my friend am bi.... n it was like... ugh.... i lost my friends.... i never kno this would be so hard... if my friends took it so... my family would be so worst.... sigh... i just wanna be accepted for who i am.... i am just kinda fedup with the name callings and stuff even though they just starting calling me that. :(

[Zeh Crazy]

I only tell the friends I know that will accept me. Those are the friends I have a better relationship with.

[beedubs]

they are not your real friends then. you need to find a group of friends who accept you for who you are.

[Fusion]

Sorry it didn't work out so well for you, real friends would have accepted who you are and moved on theses people just left you for dead in a sense. Coming out to your family shouldn't be anything like your friends, they won't give you crap for it hopefully, hopefully they just move on and accept it. I really think that everyone should be careful about who they tell when coming out. Only tell your friends you really and truly trust (like your best friend).

[oscarlichen]

Then they aren't your true friends.

[ackmedsgirl666]

Then they aren't your true friends.
agreed
anyone who cannot accept you for who you really are ARE NOT your true friends
you should reside in people who you know will give
a damn and accept you. maybe you can try going to gay community groups in your area and meet some other gay or bi people who share similar beliefs to your own
hope this helps

[CaliKid24]

same happend to me. and yea find friends that will accept u, or just explain to them that ur not any different than u were before. i explained to the friends who found out about me being bi that ive always been like this so its not like ive changed. but good luck.

[lolimbrando]

I havent personaly done it, but I don't think I would.

[TheSnowCat]

I'm sorry....

Honestly, if your friends were that quick to judge you.... they weren't real friends anyway because a real friend does accept you for who you are, not by what sex you're attracted to. I wish you the very best of luck!

[Harley Quinn]

ugh... just told my friend am bi.... n it was like... ugh.... i lost my friends.... i never kno this would be so hard... if my friends took it so... my family would be so worst.... sigh... i just wanna be accepted for who i am.... i am just kinda fedup with the name callings and stuff even though they just starting calling me that. :(

i know this won't sound nice, but here's the truth:

Society is like that, you will get picked on you will be hated and you will lose friends, that's not your fault. Homophobes will always exist, there is no escaping them, but soon you will come to terms with the fact it's not gonna be easy and you will get hurt. You will get a lot worse then name calling, it came escalate into much more dangerous things because people can't accept the fact that people are different. You just have to move on, move forward in your life and look past what's being said, and live the life you want!

[war-fougt-in-a-boy]

Yea the person was never your true friend cuz i go through the same thing and i haven't told any one i was gay or bi. People look down on you, they bully, and the hurt you too,but i doesn't hurt as much when a friend does it.i know this might be hard but you gonna have to let that friend go.

[karl]

Prejudice, whether sexual, religious or racial is really horrible, but unfortunately it's something a lot of people have to suffer. It's something mankind has to eradicate in this 21st Century

[Vurtine]

I came out earlier this year but I only told my bestest friend, Simone and she hugeed and kissed me and was well happy for me! Dude, they aren't your real friends because if they were then they would be proud of you and happy because you are happy about it. Find better friends and tell someone you know you won't fall out with or if you do they wont hold it against you as a bribe etc.

Get new friends and be proud of who you are!

[XpopularX]

ur friend sucks

[drew.]

you really find out who your true friends are..

[DanielBoy]

I just told my best friend I am bi. He is 18 and about to start college, so he is accepting. He is a little weirded out right now, because to him if there was a picture of straight I would be it. :\ He will get over it though, we have too much fun for something like that to get in the way of our friendship. :D I suggest talking to this friend. Basically explain to him that you can't control what you are, and that you don't like him that way; tell him that you told him because he is your best friend and you wanted him to know. If he doesn't accept it then, then he was never really your friend.

I hope I helped. :D

[dbeazy791]

ugh... just told my friend am bi.... n it was like... ugh.... i lost my friends.... i never kno this would be so hard... if my friends took it so... my family would be so worst.... sigh... i just wanna be accepted for who i am.... i am just kinda fedup with the name callings and stuff even though they just starting calling me that. :(

dude that sucks, but ik what it feels like. while im not "bi," im black so ive had to deal with people not accepting me for that for a long time. it does hurt a lot, but you just have to remember to not let it get to you or they have triumphed over you.

Good luck, bud :)

[yoda]

Well that was crappy of your so called friend. Sorry that happened.

[Nathan_B]

Sorry that happened to you dude. I told a few of my friends, some people found out. I started dating a guy, more and more people found out. And then my parents found out. And everyones pretty much fine with it. only a few people wont be my friends because of it. But I am really sorry for what happened

[Fushigi]

Then they aren't your true friends.

yep agree with him... every friend should accept their friend who they are and what they are... and i guess ur family will accept u but not that easy but im sure they will :D time will heal everything.... :D