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Paladino
July 22nd, 2010, 06:07 PM
So, lately for the past 3 weeks or so me and my girlfriend have been arguing alot more like stupid little arguements that last for like 2 minutes then we make in then everything is normal again and there is jealousy when my friends are talking to her and there is jealousy when her friends are talking to me and stupid things like that, but last night we promised each other that we would stop all the stupid stuff because its the beginning of the end of the relationship, is it really the beginning of the end ? and if it is see if we stop all the little silly arguements and stuff will it stop being the beginning of the end ?

welcome_to_chaos
July 22nd, 2010, 06:35 PM
i really dont know because right now me and my boyfriend have been having the same prob except the things we fight over are a lot more serious and our arguments are more hurtful

Paladino
July 22nd, 2010, 06:37 PM
i really dont know because right now me and my boyfriend have been having the same prob except the things we fight over are a lot more serious and our arguments are more hurtful

Oh sorry to hear that hope you two can get over your arguements :(

SneakBrain
July 22nd, 2010, 06:42 PM
You seem like my parents before they get separate! but you can help it before it happens I think each of you just need their own space for a little bit, I mean it's okay if she talked to another boy or if you talked to another girl, jealousy is in every love you cant love someone without being jealous at them. So just take it easy and it can be the beginning of a new kind of relationship

Paladino
July 22nd, 2010, 06:49 PM
You seem like my parents before they get separate! but you can help it before it happens I think each of you just need their own space for a little bit, I mean it's okay if she talked to another boy or if you talked to another girl, jealousy is in every love you cant love someone without being jealous at them. So just take it easy and it can be the beginning of a new kind of relationship

Thanks for the advice man.

Rutherford The Brave
July 22nd, 2010, 06:50 PM
This is one of the harder tests a couple will face. Usually it is the end for most couples. The issue of trust is very difficult. If the two of you cannot stop bitching at each other, and being jelous. It will be over. So here's what you need to do. The two of you need to sit down and talk to each other. None of this oh we can do it over the phone bull shit. A face to face convo.

Paladino
July 23rd, 2010, 07:16 AM
This is one of the harder tests a couple will face. Usually it is the end for most couples. The issue of trust is very difficult. If the two of you cannot stop bitching at each other, and being jelous. It will be over. So here's what you need to do. The two of you need to sit down and talk to each other. None of this oh we can do it over the phone bull shit. A face to face convo.

Ok, I dont want to lose her so I will make sure I do everything I can to keep her.

Rex99
July 23rd, 2010, 08:01 AM
Ok, I dont want to lose her so I will make sure I do everything I can to keep her.

Maybe you should tell her that...It shows that you really care.

welcome_to_chaos
July 23rd, 2010, 08:48 AM
thanks for the advice everyone :)

Babobobo
July 27th, 2010, 03:23 AM
I think it's compromise for the better. Try to make the relationship go swimmingly better than before, a little more exciting.

Fiending_the_freedom
July 27th, 2010, 09:41 PM
Arguing in a relationship is A LOT healthier than not arguing.