Bff troubles

[tomboysk8r1314]

Ok so i live really close to my 3 bffs, we do a lot of stuff together usually. But in these past couple weeks they've completly have taken me out of everything. They never txt me anymore, i see on facebook of all the stuff they've been doing together. The only time i really get to see them is at our soccer games and even there they dont talk to me and avoid me as much as possible. Yesterday i called them up and asked if they wanted to go to the lake with me. All three said no cuz they had "plans". Those plans were to go to the pool and they proceded to put on facebook about how much fun they had and that friends were the best things to hav been made.....can someone tell me whats going on? Oh and when i confronted them about it they had to "go". I feel really depressed because they are the only people that truly understand me, and im considering becoming goth now so that i wont have to explain why im always so sad... Help

[misery_business]

I guess you could just ask them why they have been excluding you, tell them how it's making you feel and maybe they will understand, maybe it's time for you to hang out with different people :)
I know what it feels like, i had a problem like this but I ended up making other friends that care alot about me. good luck x

[tomboysk8r1314]

Yeah but whenever i try to ask them why they always say they have to go....this has happened before and when i confronted them about it and talked to them about it they just ignored me again....

[misery_business]

If they keep ignoring you then their not being very good friends, I think just ask them if they still want to be friends with you or do something together or maybe start making new friends ? Im not the best at giving advice sorry lol x

[tomboysk8r1314]

Actuatlly u are lol i asked them if we were really friends and they said yeah why? I told them Pretty much what i said up there and added that i felt like the spare tire on a semi truck. They told me that they needed space... (bad language alert) Fuck that excuse! So to sum it all up they told me they constantly need space from me. It hurts to say it but i believe my friendship with them is over.

[misery_business]

Well that sucks, im sorry about that.
Here's your chance to meet new people, more peple you have more stuff in common with! like you said you liked hockey maybe make friends from your team.
The truth is it hurts alot to lose a friend but people come in and out of your life all the time and you need to accept that you can't always have what (or who :D) you want but it's for a reason.
:hug: Hope things get better and good luck! You can always talk to me if you want, im always happy to help and listen to you <3 xx

[oscarlichen]

Oh. I do this to my friends when they begin to bore me.

[tomboysk8r1314]

Well i got to soccer and we talked it out ( face to face is way better than through text) tey said that they're gonna stop doing it and give our friendship another chance... We gave hugs then won our game :) so i guess happy ending for now. And oscar thats screwed up