same boat as me...?

[reithedragonboy]

Has anyone been as confused as I have about their sexuality for a long time before they figured it out? How did you finally came to the conclusion of your sexuality?

[Judas]

I realized that I am straight but curious through the helpful advice from where we are now. VT. Asking people helps you realize things, since it's from a different perspective.

[Milo1234]

well i was sure i was gay for 6 years now im pretty sure im bisexual so yeah im confused

[Scotland]

Everyone gets it bud, its just your hormones playing up :)

[SWMG]

Yeah most of the times are hormones because i don't know have you ever noticed that like when you are cheking out a guy he must be hot it's not that you are sentimenatally attracted it's just a physical attraction

[Kaius]

:arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Harley Quinn]

Has anyone been as confused as I have about their sexuality for a long time before they figured it out? How did you finally came to the conclusion of your sexuality?

It took me a long time to realise what I was, I tbh was scared of the thought that I could be gay, that I could be bi. I just knew that I wasn't straight. That was probably the only thing I was sure off. Though during your teenage years with your hormones raging and everything, plenty of people are in the same boat as you. Remember you have years to figure out what you are, don't rush it :)

[AMili]

I have the same problem. I will only date girls and I like girls but I prefer to jack off to guys.

[nick]

It took me a long time to realise what I was, I tbh was scared of the thought that I could be gay, that I could be bi. I just knew that I wasn't straight. That was probably the only thing I was sure off. Though during your teenage years with your hormones raging and everything, plenty of people are in the same boat as you. Remember you have years to figure out what you are, don't rush it :)
I could have written more or less exactly that about myself. I'm still not really sure, or if I am sure then I'm sure that I dont fit any of the labels.

[TheSnowCat]

It took me quite a while. A couple years ago I was really unsure what I was because I wasn't really attracted to men (or women) & didn't really care much about sex. I've been with my boyfriend since fall of 2008. I don't think about it too much anymore. I just consider myself straight, but very open minded. I think back then, it could've went either way. When it comes right down to it, all that really matters (I think) is what makes you happy. If you meet a girl & she makes you happy, be with her. If you meet a guy & he makes you happy, be with him. When you meet the right person, you'll know either way.

[kMan137]

I figured out I'm str8 but curious.. Lol thanks to VT

[smitty35]

Im on this boat....but I still haven't figured out what I am.....time will let me know.

[Dunce]

Questioning or experimenting with your sexuality is totally normal for teenagers. I'm questioning about three years now. You don't just suddenly come to a conclusion, like, there's no procedure involved with discovering your sexual orientation. As time passes you'll begin to see a pattern of what attracts you, and your experiences will make it more clear :)
Don't worry, at first I hated questioning my sexuality. I felt like I just had to ignore the feelings. But now it's actually pretty fun ;) :P

[DoctorWho]

I realized im straight and not curious

[LuckyLuke]

Ever since I'd started having sexual urges, I thought I was gay. I was attracted to men, I'd check out men, I'd masturbate to men- I liked men.

But as time went on and I grew older, my height wasn't the only thing that changed; my tastes did as well. I find that, as time goes on, I find women more and more attractive and men less and less. It's rare a time that I masturbate to men and it's very rare when I check guys out. I find myself becoming more and more "straight".

I'm not sure what I am- I can't see myself in a relationship with a male (I certainly can, and am, with a female). I can't really see myself pleasuring a man anymore, as I used to, and I continuously find myself fantasizing about females more and more.

Maybe I'll end up being straight... or bi or gay. Who knows? All I know is this: I will accept myself for whatever I am and live it proudly regardless of my sexuality.

[XxMurderedKissesxX]

Yes,at first I thought I was a lesbian,but I realized i was bisexual,and more attracted to women. I just didnt label myself until I was 100% sure. I thought of sexual attraction,physical attraction and emotional attraction,and just looked around at people at school and seen if I was interested,and I was. I also experimented with afew people before hand. If it takes awhile,dont stress it,ull get ur answer eventually.