the laides

[dude14]

so i have this girl who liked me and wnted to date me but i sed no, she got sad and was deprest for like a month. then i thought i could just try it maby ill like her back, so i sed ok. she was happy, i was ok. a week later i was bored with her so i was like i think im going to, bam! she cuts me off and ses, I WANT TO BRAKE UP! i sed good and left like right away. but she acted like she didnt like me after that. but then the girl i realy like told me that the other girl told her to be meen to me so id like her again. and of cours i sed leav me alone but now she stalks me. help me!!!!!

[Aspiringanonymous]

What a ridiculous situation. Here's something you can tell her, or get your mutual friend to tell her if she won't openly talk to you.

If she still likes you and wants a chance with you, it's obvious from the last time you asked her politely to leave you alone that this is no longer possible. If she has any thoughts or feelings regarding you that need to be expressed, encourage her to be open about it - say everything that needs to be said without worry or hesitation and then move on like any sensible person would.

Now, if she's stalking you to attempt to make you feel bad in any way, the appropriate question would be why. Why waste time and energy trying to spite someone when they might not even care, and you'd just be hurting yourself? Why be stubborn and refuse to let the past go? At the end of the day, why does it even matter what this person thinks of you anyway? It's a big world out there, full of different personalities and exciting new situations to encounter.

The other possibility is that she never cared to begin with, but saw it all as a game from the start. In this case, remind her that any self-respecting person would stop when they are asked to stop, to do otherwise is an invasion of one's personal space and can only reflect badly on her own character and integrity. Contrary to popular belief, it is possible to pursue an experience for entertainment value without compromising one's integrity. Surely she can do better than what she's shown so far.

Hope things work out for you soon!

[nickw_2013]

I agree with Krezlyn, this is ridiculous. If you don't still like her in any way, you need to just take a little time and talk to her. Tell her you don't have any feelings for her and that you can't see your friendship going anywhere.
As for the stalking, you need to tell them to leave you alone and try and ignore them as much as possible.

[Babobobo]

IGNORE THEM! Move on it's your life and your decisions.