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justin29
July 21st, 2010, 11:23 AM
im new here, so anything helps. so every year when i get a physicl, my mom stays in the room with me and she sees everythin. last year i started getting hair on my dick, and now i shave it, im nervous that she or the doctor will say sumthin. also my penis has gotten really big now, im almost 6.5 soft. if anyone wants to pm me here, please, i could use someone to talk to
AwesomeAussie
July 21st, 2010, 11:29 AM
well you need 100 posts to PM but yeah the doctor doesn't care if you shave and as for your mum just tell her that you want some privacy and just want it to be just you and the doctor. you an message me over msn if you want
biboy96
July 21st, 2010, 11:33 AM
Just say "Mom, I think I need some privacy"
dude14
July 21st, 2010, 11:39 AM
I have the same problem.
SWMG
July 21st, 2010, 12:07 PM
Yeah you can tell her or tell the doctor to tell her
justin29
July 21st, 2010, 12:09 PM
i mean i dont really care, i think im pretty big, jus wondering if she cares. if anyone wants to message, do so
SWMG
July 21st, 2010, 12:41 PM
Well then i dont think its a problem in her being there but i like to her not be there
compguy710
July 21st, 2010, 01:15 PM
I think you should tell her to get out!
LOL Your mom does not need to see that man...
Giles
July 21st, 2010, 01:34 PM
I would just say that you want your privacy. I mean I don't know how old you are, but if my mother had came in when I had my last examination then I would of cried. It would be so embarrassing.
aaronbrumbrum22
July 21st, 2010, 02:31 PM
ya just tell her before hand that u want her to stay like in the lobby
Babobobo
July 21st, 2010, 02:38 PM
This is what you should do:
Simply mention that you'd rather have your mom exit the room during this physical. IF a situation happens where they refuse (which I am almost positive will not happen), then you have the right to refuse the physical. This is your business and nothing for her to see now.
lil emo boy
July 21st, 2010, 02:53 PM
i agree with babobobo... dat'z all u have to do...
ati5870
July 22nd, 2010, 12:01 AM
The doctor wont care, but your mom is different. Some will care, some won't. Depends on your mom.
Judas
July 22nd, 2010, 05:24 AM
Just ask your mom to leave. She'll understand.
enzenzz
July 24th, 2010, 06:40 AM
i know it is sometimes required to have a parent present in the room but you can ask your mom to look the other way when you are being examined down there. just say that you will yell if anything bad happens :P
gooog34
July 24th, 2010, 08:48 AM
Yeah, I would just tell your mom you're at an old enough age need privacy. And the doctor won't care what you do to your pubes :)
oscarlichen
July 24th, 2010, 10:16 AM
I'm sure she'll understand if you tell her it's getting creepy and she should stop.
guy1234
July 25th, 2010, 08:16 AM
You have a legal right to privacy during that exam. Just ask her to leave
AMili
July 25th, 2010, 09:23 AM
The physical is your business and you basically get to choose whose in there
Milo1234
July 25th, 2010, 09:28 AM
id just ask her to step outside while your gettin checked, it would just be plain weird if my mum did that.
BigManOnCampus
July 25th, 2010, 10:31 AM
just ask her to leave thats what i do
Andy J
July 31st, 2010, 03:43 AM
You also have the right to say NO to having that kind of exam and then it won't be an issue. They can't force you to remove your underwear and have your penis examined. I basically told my doctors to F'off and I haven't had to worry about that type of exam at all.
DanielBoy
July 31st, 2010, 03:35 PM
Okay, two things, your mom shouldn't stay in there, so if you are about to be checked for hemorrhoids, ask her to leave, she has to because at your age, you have the right to privacy. Second, your doctor wont say anything, it is not only a personal preference to shave, but a cleanliness thing.
Hope this helps. :D
tinkergenius
August 13th, 2010, 12:58 PM
Dude, my Uncle is a Doctor, and even though he's my Dad's Brother, (and my Doctor) he tells me there is a thing called "Doctor/Patient" confidentiality.
Unless I or he "specifically" request my Mom or Dad to be in the same room, He won't allow it. And BY LAW, he's required to maintain that privacy for my protection.
Now, after the examination, he may pull them in to just talk about things in general, but when I'm naked and "hangin" - or the YUK..prostate thing (lol) they can't be in there - DAD or Mom.
So, dude, it's time to tell Mom to TAKE A HIKE!! You're not her little boy any more; lol at 6.5 soft...YOU'RE NOT A BOY AT ALL!!! lol Every Guy on here would probably kill for 6.5 soft...lol I WOULD!!
chris4
August 13th, 2010, 01:02 PM
Well, my mom just knew to leave when I reached that age. Actually, she never was really looking over the doctors shoulder at that part...the best thing to do is to tell your mom to give you some privacy even if the easiest way to do that is through a subtle joke.
niko0202
August 13th, 2010, 03:00 PM
There are some things parenst are not ment to watch or do with you Doctor check-ups is defo one of those... Tell her to leave if you don't want her to say anything and the Doc won't say anything either he is just there to do your check-up not to judge you and tell you if its good or not that you shave or that u have a big penis
zander
August 13th, 2010, 04:31 PM
yeah i would say, hey mom wuold you mind if i saw the Dr alone , ya know im getting oldr now and stuff. unless she is like totally weird i think she would understand. i did that to my mom when i turned 12. plus my dr always told my mom to wait outside and talked to me in private asking me about school and if anyone was bothering me or i needed to talk. she has done that since i was 9.
Xaylon95
August 25th, 2010, 01:05 AM
I'm 15 and haven't had a physical, but I went to the doctor the other day for a checkup and my doctor is female and she squeezed on my testicles and pressed on my penis and it felt good, but I think I only want my wife to do that when we have sex.
jason93
August 25th, 2010, 02:30 AM
My mum never go in with me to the doctor now. She use to go in with me to interpret but now I just organise interpretor from deaf society.
I would never let my mum go to the doctor with me now, I think once you are 14 year old you should go on your own.
alexpop
August 25th, 2010, 02:50 AM
Damn how big are u hard????
Reverie
August 25th, 2010, 03:10 AM
Once you hit puberty, I think it's time to see your doctor alone. For physicals and private matters, anyway.
If the visit is for a flu or virus or something, having your parents present might be a good idea.
Tell her that you're at an age where certain things with your doctor require privacy.
Good luck!
mafiadude97
October 24th, 2010, 01:07 PM
just ask her for some privacy..... she will prolly understand.
nmc1995
October 24th, 2010, 07:17 PM
same problem dude, just ask ur mom to leave, she will understand and will respect it, its only bad if u get a boner and ur mom sees, like mine... :/
izik
October 24th, 2010, 07:21 PM
when i get my physical my mom is in the room when the doctor does height and weight and all the other basic procedures. but then when the clothes come off me and my doctor move into his office for the rest of the physical examination ;)
pepjack
October 25th, 2010, 10:35 PM
Thank goodness I dont have this problem...Mom started letting me go in by myself...Its much easier to not have to be examined in front of a parent.
Just ask your mom to leave...
kenshin8106
October 26th, 2010, 01:17 AM
just tell her you need some privacy, she should be understand about it. She probably thinks you want her there for moral support
brandon.t
November 10th, 2010, 09:00 PM
i never actually had a physical b4 so idk what they are like but if i were you i would just tell my mom on the ride there that i dont feel confortable with her there
Ricardo
November 10th, 2010, 09:08 PM
Your mum should not go in with you.. She should know not to.
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