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Princess Pike
September 22nd, 2006, 04:48 AM
Hi, i'm only 15, but my breasts are what i would call abnormally big, 32E. I'm constantly getting whistled at and propisitoned for sex by guys that are in there 20's. I tape them down but it hurts, wear sports bra's that are way to small. My father said he would pay for a reduction, but the doctor said i should wait untiill i'm older because i'm only 15 and that they will continue to grow. I'm at a loss. Guys annoy me, and if they get any bigger i'm affraid i just wont be able to hide them. Do any of you have any advice? It would help alot.

Aηdy
September 22nd, 2006, 09:47 AM
Blimey, thats a bit unfortunate, well if the doctor said its best not to have a reduction yet then i think the only thing you can do its wait. Sorry :(

~Dazed&&Confused~
September 22nd, 2006, 12:23 PM
ye i guess theres not much you can do apart from wait.. for the people whos whistling just ignore them.. if a guy comes up to you and start talkin like 'WOW! those some nice boobs' then either slap him or just say 'ye whatever' and walk away..

Elscire
September 22nd, 2006, 07:45 PM
ignore the guys, don't talk to srangers and don't go out late at night. i really don't think that a reduction is nessary because because you're still in puberty and having them reduced now isn't the best idea. wait for another 3 more years then see.

mr_smite1
September 23rd, 2006, 09:37 AM
the best thing you can do is just ignore the whistles, or you can manipulate the people in your class (if you are in a mixed school) by using your breasts :P

~Ðarç~
September 23rd, 2006, 02:42 PM
lol smite =O
yeah you should wait a while before thinkin of a reduction =\ if the whole whistlin thing and such bothers you that much

Princess Pike
September 24th, 2006, 12:48 PM
I'ts not just the calls, the hooting and just all-round loser behavior from 20 odd year old guys. If im standing up for a while my back will start to hurt, i use to like running..umm...yeah...not anymore, i could not even get on a trampoline with my friends yesterday, i know big deal huh? it's just a trampoline, i should be able to jump on it though! I have lived next to the beach my whole life, i love the beach, always have, but now i just cant bring myself to go to the beach. I'm becomming very depressed and the thought of them getting bigger just makes it worse.

Elscire
September 24th, 2006, 02:00 PM
i don't think theres much to be emrassed about, a sports bra should keep them held back a bit. but still, you're still in puberty and it won't end until you're 18. just don't go to places that you think there are lots of guys.

Ravenous
September 24th, 2006, 03:40 PM
just don't go to places that you think there are lots of guys.
oh cos there are so many places without men..

Bobby
September 24th, 2006, 03:43 PM
delete..sorry

My_Toes_Are_Cold
September 24th, 2006, 06:21 PM
If it really bothers you, just find an authority when they stare or whistle, and accuse them of sexual harassment.

Princess Pike
September 24th, 2006, 10:59 PM
I know i'm still going through puberty, but that wont make my breasts shrink lol they will just get bigger, will they not? And i do find it embarrassing to be in a bikini, or any swimsuit for that matter. I'm sorry if i'm annoying any of you, but none of my friends get it, they are all like "why would you complain about having big boobs, do you just want attention? I would love to have your boobs." I just can't talk to them.

Elscire
September 24th, 2006, 11:09 PM
yes... they really don't know how it feels like darlin, but even so once you have them shrunk they could still grow. i still think waiting a bit more is better, wear something that can hold them back a bit.

Princess Pike
September 24th, 2006, 11:46 PM
I do i usually wear C cup sports bras, that are next to impossible to get on by the way, but they hurt and make it kinda hard to breath, and i just cant wear layers of clothing anymore cus its getting way to hot.

Barelythere
September 25th, 2006, 12:03 PM
aw hun, im sorry to hear abut your predicament, althougth the doctors have said they cant reduce them have you asked for anything that could stop them growing anybigger?, like some sorta pill or something, you may still b going trough puberty buti doubt that they will get any bigger, but dont hold me to that, about the sports bras, wearing a "c" ??? thats a reali bad idea if you are trying to hide them more, a size that small with as you said hurt, which is not good at all, it could also cause tissue damage and could cause seriousproblems later on it life, but apart from that, the size being that small just means your boobs will b squished up and that will make them look bigger not smaller, i suggest you go and get a properly fitted sports bra, explain the problems your having to the lady who fits it for you, tell her you need support and size reducing, not only will that help your back, but it will allow you o do more sports again, but they wont be so squished up so will proberly look smaller, i think i covered what i ment to, tell me if i missed something, i had advice for it all, ive just got kinda carryed away and forgot where i was goin :P lol hope it helps hun cya xx

Princess Pike
September 25th, 2006, 03:59 PM
I was begining to think there were no girls on here lol. Dont get me wrong, the guys have helped, but its nice to get a female oppinion. Thanks, i asked my dad and he is going to take me to B 'n' T to get fitted today, im kinda nervous, i know its stupid, but i am. I have never been properly fitted before. I hope it helps, if even just a little.

Princess Pike
September 26th, 2006, 05:44 AM
Wow i wish i never did that. I went in and started talking and telling the lady whats wrong, she got out her trusty tape measure, measured me, walked over to her book, then told me that they dont have a single bra in my size that is apparantly 36EE!!!!!! i almost cried. When my dad saw me he asked me what was wrong, so i told him, he then drove me around for 2 hours looking for a place that had bras in my size, but apparantly no store near me does!! so he bought me like 5 over the net, that was weird. I'm really depressed now, my dad is freaking out too cus he doesnt know what to do. I called the doctor so i can talk about it and see just what, if anything, i can do. I think i'm going to try and get him to get my dad to let me do the reduction, i thought about it, and if i do it now, even if they start growing more, there is no way they will get this big again, so i dont really see a problem with it, maybe i'm insane but i think it would be best.

Elscire
September 26th, 2006, 08:28 AM
doesn't like victoriassecret.com have it?

Barelythere
September 26th, 2006, 12:48 PM
heya huni, yep there def one girl here :P
but ok so, can u tell me what country u live in? as i may o sme shops where you cn get sme good breas for large sizes, my mom is an F so i can ask her for you, depending on ur placing in the world :P i am sorry that finding out that your a EE has upset you, but i am really glad to hear that ypu went for a fitting, im shocked you have never been before, you should always go, or how will you no what real size you as, as proved here, i really do thinkd that the new bras you are getting will help you alot with your back pain ect, please dont feel sad about this news, it can b fied it just mite take some time, i am also vry glad to hear that you went to the doctors to ask if there is anything you can do, smart move, as for what you and your dad should do, is defently calm down a bit, no offence, but there really is no need to anic it will only make you feel worse and it seems to by you stating you feel depressed, would it b ok to talk over MSN or AIM at some point? its just i think i ned to talk to u as in a proper covo to fully understand whats goin on how u feel, and offer some advice, that i hope helps, do not regret goin for a fitting tho hun, it just shows how wrong in sizes you were getting it! and now u have found out the correct action can b taken to help you if you get me, k i hope to chat to u soon, both my addys are on my profile, chat soon huni xxxx

~Cookie~
September 26th, 2006, 02:34 PM
I don't think reduction is nessasary expecally not at this age.Just ignore the guys and the whistling.If anyone comes up to you and comments your boobs just punch them ^_^.It will make you feel better and it will show people that theres more to you.Or if its an older guy just say really loud "NO I WILL NOT GO OUT WITH YOU.IM SORRY,PETIFILES ARN'T MY TASTE"or summin like that....:yes: :yeah:

0=
September 26th, 2006, 03:40 PM
Exercise can reduce breast size by a cup or two, so just try to exercise a bit more in any way you can till they stop growin hun, and don't mind what people say by the beach. Just ignore them and have fun, they're just stupid horny assholes.

Elscire
September 26th, 2006, 04:42 PM
thats only if she has the courage to say it, i know i wouldn't if i were her. but anyways, operation would be my last last option. it sometimes has to do with something you eat, nutrients do collect in the breasts

scottyman
September 26th, 2006, 10:44 PM
i dont know if you already said this but you could tape them up with madical bandages.

Aηdy
September 27th, 2006, 01:33 AM
But thats not gonna make them any smaller. Talk to your doctor again and see if theres ANYTHING he/she can do, there must be something.

scottyman
September 27th, 2006, 07:53 PM
she could start working out but i mean she could wrap them up to make them look smaller.

Princess Pike
September 27th, 2006, 09:37 PM
I would just like to state that i'm not fat, and i walk almost everywhere. I don't want to go to the gym because buff muscular girls are gross in my oppinion.

Elscire
September 27th, 2006, 10:34 PM
I would just like to state that i'm not fat, and i walk almost everywhere. I don't want to go to the gym because buff muscular girls are gross in my oppinion.

loz!!!l i agree, muscular women extremely will give me a trauma.

~Ðarç~
September 28th, 2006, 02:15 PM
I don't think reduction is nessasary expecally not at this age.Just ignore the guys and the whistling.If anyone comes up to you and comments your boobs just punch them ^_^.It will make you feel better and it will show people that theres more to you.Or if its an older guy just say really loud "NO I WILL NOT GO OUT WITH YOU.IM SORRY,PETIFILES ARN'T MY TASTE"or summin like that....:yes: :yeah:



thats actually not a good idea cuz if they're 20 and they're gettin turned on by a 15 year old sometin wrong there, dont mess wif 20yr old ppl especiall 20 year old guys

Barelythere
September 30th, 2006, 06:11 PM
i defo aggree about not saying those things to 20yr olds, not a smart move :S bout tapeing them that would just b uncomfortable im sure, i defenatly thing that getting the right bra would make life easier for you, about the rduction, im not sure if anyone would even consider it as you are so young, its unlikey they will grow anymor, but the right bra will deff make life easier for you, tell me when u get them, c how they go, cya huni xxx

Gamebreaker
October 3rd, 2006, 03:53 PM
Hey dont take a reduction! You should just letthem grow until you are done with puberty. If you are dissatisfied still, then u can do a reduction

miissyux3
October 5th, 2006, 04:16 PM
don't take this advice the wrong way, but if i was in that situation. i would fuck that guy up. hmm.. but it depends like if its at school then i dont reccomend that but if its on the street, your underaged. so just beat them up

Elscire
October 5th, 2006, 04:42 PM
don't take this advice the wrong way, but if i was in that situation. i would fuck that guy up. hmm.. but it depends like if its at school then i dont reccomend that but if its on the street, your underaged. so just beat them up

you you still beat them up if they were a group and they are 1.3X taller than you? plus i try to stay away from groups of guys,

~Ðarç~
October 5th, 2006, 07:33 PM
very good idea, 20 yr old guys can rape you, iono if that was such a good thing to say but its true dont trust them >.<

Princess Pike
October 7th, 2006, 07:19 AM
I try to stay away from them, and im not even going to attempt to beat up a guy who could snap me in two, or rape me. I got my new bras by the way, they fit extremely well, very, very comfortable. but they lift them up more, just making them more obvious, not that they werent already :( My doctor also said that there is nothing he knows about to help, so i'm screwed. My dad made me see a head doctor (can't spell the word lol) 5 times in the past 2 weeks, it actually helped a bit, she made me see that there is really no need to become a hermit lol i even went to the beach yesterday, but i wont be doing that alot, way to annoying. i'm still depressed about them and want a reduction, but im not isolating myself anymore, so, i guess thats good.

mRojas2000
October 7th, 2006, 08:10 AM
Congratz on getting your new bras!! way to go :)

just dont worry anymore about them... just finish up puberty, and maybe you will like your boobs more...

take it easy :)

Miguel

northskater110
October 7th, 2006, 08:14 AM
i think that would be sweet, and the guys have a reason 2 whistle, cuz ur probobly a hottie:) (sry if i offended any1, didnt mean 2)

Dante
October 8th, 2006, 08:23 AM
well if the doctor say do not get a reduction yet because it will continue to grow, it is obvious you will need one when it stops growing. Breasts of that size can put a lot of strain on the back, which could result in back problems.

As for the guys whistling at you, just ignore them

cooldudescott2
October 11th, 2006, 06:27 PM
how do u ask a qustion plz tell me

~Ðarç~
October 13th, 2006, 02:04 PM
yeah just wait till growth stops then concider reduction if it bothers you so much

and uh scott? you just asked one congrats

kurlyopapa
October 13th, 2006, 04:45 PM
just ignore then or if yuo like them then whistle back

~Ðarç~
October 14th, 2006, 01:16 PM
lol i think ignoring them would be the best answer =\

scottyman
October 15th, 2006, 12:27 AM
umm wait if they keep growing wont the get bigger and wont that make the problem worse. so y not get a reduction(im not saying get one)

Makod
October 15th, 2006, 02:44 AM
how do u ask a qustion plz tell me

Put a ? at the end of a sentence... lol

~Ðarç~
October 15th, 2006, 07:19 AM
yeah that was weird @[email protected]

Princess Pike
November 17th, 2006, 10:50 PM
Well, i thought i would just update my situation.

Since i was here last, they have grown another full cup size bigger, i have talked it over with everyone (doctor included) and even the doctor said that it would be best for my health to have the reduction now, before they creat perminent back problems. so im going in for surgery in 3 days.........holy crap im scared. Apparently they remove your nipple completely then put it back when they are done!!!!!


Wish me luck.........lol.....................please......

Phantom
November 17th, 2006, 11:03 PM
Wish you luck.
Don't worry you will be fine :)

Barelythere
November 21st, 2006, 04:58 PM
good luck huni tell us your ok after!!!
ill b waiting to hear frm you :hug: xoxox

Princess Pike
November 29th, 2006, 10:03 AM
OMFG! soooooo much pain :(

mRojas2000
November 29th, 2006, 10:15 AM
What happened hun :(

Aηdy
November 29th, 2006, 10:49 AM
OMFG! soooooo much pain :(
I hope it all went ok.... is the pain from the surgery?

Princess Pike
December 8th, 2006, 05:45 AM
Wow, it was so painful for the first week and they were kinda swolen, but OMFG im so happy, im now a D cup and its great, i feel so so so so so much better, he said that they will probably grow bigger but nowhere near as big as they were. so happy. go me lol

Dante
December 8th, 2006, 11:03 AM
Congratulations!!!!!

RowanVer.3.0
December 8th, 2006, 02:44 PM
Nice! Go you :P

mRojas2000
December 8th, 2006, 02:49 PM
Yay!! She's normal size now! :D

Barelythere
December 12th, 2006, 03:32 PM
woo well done hun, glad your happyer now, im happy your feeling better about yourself :) hope everythings ok, love ya xx

JoshDude
January 8th, 2007, 03:32 AM
Yeh congratulations.

123456
January 13th, 2007, 08:16 AM
Glad it all went well

Reading the first page or so I though you should not get the surgery done as you would grow after the procedure and then you might have to get it again later down the road...but I guess if the doctor went with it it's ok...

Cap'nCrunch
January 18th, 2007, 08:28 PM
Eeesh. Obviously, getting the reduction won't do any good. Sorry, but I guess you just have to deal with it for a while. Think of it this way: at least you don't have to worry about having small breasts

Bankai15
January 18th, 2007, 08:32 PM
I was going to say if you got it strut it but it is you choice.

JoshDude
January 19th, 2007, 03:26 AM
"Strut it" may have not of been the best choice for her as she stated she attracts alot of older guys...

Activate
January 19th, 2007, 08:04 AM
Not trying to be mean or anything but, could you tie your shoes with boobs that big? I'm curious =]

DS_furio
February 10th, 2007, 07:54 PM
if your a d i bet there are still girls your age tht are jealous

Cap'nCrunch
February 12th, 2007, 08:53 PM
You shouldn't have to hide them. So many girls *pay* to have breast enhancements, so I'd be thankful. Maybe I'm missing the point.

ViolinPro
February 16th, 2007, 02:20 PM
dont worry, its just the genetics, im 13 and i dont have ANY bra yet, probably in a year or so. PLZ DONT LISTEN to the guys, and keep away from them if they try to do something bad.
just an advice

kk xoxoxoxoxoxox

thisisjohn
February 16th, 2007, 10:02 PM
the next time someone whistles at you, you tell him that you'll see him in court. dont worry about your breast size. not to sound stupid, but think like how drew barrymore does. she doesnt care how "big they are," she's just proud that god would give specifically, her, something like that. dont worry about it, think in positive ways.

Underground_Network
February 17th, 2007, 08:13 AM
If they are causing health (physical) problems then i suggest a breast reduction, but if you're fine and you can live with them, then ignore what those dumbasses say

Ricky-900
April 14th, 2007, 07:35 PM
hi, erm i think you should be happy about the boobs, i mean not many ppl have big boobs and u cud go into modelling and stuff. and if ne1 wolf whistles then jst take it as a compliment. u obviously have a nice body. and the 20 yr olds are jst perverts!

0=
April 14th, 2007, 11:36 PM
Stop necro posting.

DestroyTheFuture
April 15th, 2007, 01:38 AM
okay, heres some thought.

how tall are you, and how much do you weigh?

not to be mean, but you obiously arent skinny, so, you will reduce the size of your breasts by losing weight.

32E's in my opinion arent very good looking, because in that case, the nipple's aeriola will be stretched and kind of gross looking.



do not worry about the guys. 20 year old college kids arent stupid enough to get in jail because of sexual harrassment. they wont abduct you, rape you, or hurt you. they will only look at you and try to be cool around their buddies.


bottom line: if you lose weight, your boobs will get smaller. that is the only way to get them smaller legally at your age.

Chatman
April 28th, 2007, 11:41 AM
You should be proud of having something that alot of adolescent girls want, however the pain in you rback is because your breasts are putting extra weight onto your back and could in the long-term affect your standing posture and also damage your back. Because you are still quite young, it's not a good idea to get a reduction so i'm afraid you'll have to live with it for now. As for the men whistling at you and stuff, just shout back something like ' Don't whistle for what you'll never get' or something like that

KissMe
May 5th, 2007, 06:06 PM
I FEEL YOUR PAIN!

When I was ten, I was a BB and it was so embarrassing. Luckily, nobody raped me or anything like that.

Emryl
May 11th, 2007, 09:38 PM
If you know anyone that can sew, Ask them to make a comfortable 32E for them.
BTW, Forget the guys. they're just natural perverts.

Flooned
May 14th, 2007, 06:55 PM
Hi, i'm only 15, but my breasts are what i would call abnormally big, 32E. I'm constantly getting whistled at and propisitoned for sex by guys that are in there 20's. I tape them down but it hurts, wear sports bra's that are way to small. My father said he would pay for a reduction, but the doctor said i should wait untiill i'm older because i'm only 15 and that they will continue to grow. I'm at a loss. Guys annoy me, and if they get any bigger i'm affraid i just wont be able to hide them. Do any of you have any advice? It would help alot.


32E? DAMN

ok sorry,

i think you should wait till your like, 20+ and ask for a reduction, or maybe youll get fond of them and think of it as a blessing...

Glasgow
May 14th, 2007, 08:33 PM
well the 32 says that you are quite thin aswell. I guess you just have bad luck. If it is really uncomfortable then get a reduction. If you havent already

Aηdy
May 16th, 2007, 02:39 PM
This is old! [LOCKING]

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