What am I?

[cobblers1]

Anyone confused? Cos I bloody am!!!

I just told a few people that im bi, even though I think im gay.

I thought saying im bi would be alot easier, most people are ok with it and dont really mention it but theres obviously a few who dont like it.

Whats the best way to come out?

I think I will just not say anything to my parents etc and as my confidence grows and I have a bit more independancy then it will show and they'll have to accept it.

Anyone got any points? Just something for mt to discuss as im a bit :S atm

[Hot Fudge]

hmmm tough one, im not suprised your confused but that certainly doesnt mean you are not normal many are faced with this problem. Not all have the guts to admit that they are bi to other people tho. I dont think you really need to tell people tho i would just tell the people who id feel comfortable telling and people who i dont think will spread gossip or judge. I think that would be the best way to 'come out' thats probably what i will do when i get with my guy. I think once the people who you want to tell know and your happy with their reaction, your confidence will grow and you wont care about peoples oppinions excapt the people who matter to you.

Good Luck

[redcar]

what are you? you are a person!

dont worry yourself with the whole, am i gay, am i bi carry on. it will just eat you up and really get you no where.

just be yourself and dont label yourself. and as far as coming out, only do it if you wanna and only to those you want to and feel comfortable with as well. never feel under preassure to do that, cause its not worth it

just be yourself and be happy! :)

[xTheLordsServantx]

What are you???

The question should be WHO am I? not "What am I?"

U are a child of God. He will love you no matter what your decision is. Only u can really decide who u are and who u will turn out to be. Dont let people tell u who u are. Trust in the Lord, because He is the path that will lead you to true happiness.

[ScotsGirl]

what are you? you are a person!

dont worry yourself with the whole, am i gay, am i bi carry on. it will just eat you up and really get you no where.

just be yourself and dont label yourself. and as far as coming out, only do it if you wanna and only to those you want to and feel comfortable with as well. never feel under preassure to do that, cause its not worth it

just be yourself and be happy! :)


I agree with Alex!! :D
Forget the labels!!

xxx

[randomer]

hey god boy u cant advertise ur religion on here he could be a budist for all u know.

[Ryan_J]

I have a theory that a lot of bisexual people are simply gay, and since homosexuality is still seen by many people in a negative way...proclaiming yourself as "bi" isn't as "bad" as being gay...therefore I see bisexuality as a sort of stepping stone for homosexuality for a lot of people... really, you are what you are and only you can answer that question!