Wrong Decision?!

[JesssLukeee]

As some of you may already know. I recently had a problem choosing whether or not to say yes to a guy friend of mine (Person B) that had asked me out. I was hesitating cause I liked someone else more (Person A). I decided to say yes to Person B because the chances of Person A liking me let alone wanting to go out with me were so minimal that I would rather be slightly less happy with Person B. I've been fine with the decision for the first day that I said yes. Except until he started ignoring me.
On that first day after I said yes, me and my friend went to go and see some of our other close guy friends (Person A and others) for a few minutes before class... Person A was talking to me and it went like this:
Person A: Soo you said yes to _________
Me: Yeahh I did
Then we walk away to go to class but he shouted out Jess! I looked back then he said really sad like: I thought you'd say no...
Now I'm starting to think that I made the wrong decision, that maybe Person A does like me a little bit.
Ever since he said that he's always coming up and asking me if I've dumped Person B yet, and telling me how bad he is and that all he wants to is 'get in my pants' which doesn't really surprise me cause Person B is always flirting with other girls, and feeling them up except for me and I'm his freaking girlfriend!!! Gahh I don't know what I'm going to do.

Girls if you were in my situation, do you think I made the wrong decision? And do you think I should rethink my relationship with Person B??
Guys what would you do if you were in any of the guys situations??

I'm really confused?!

[Andrew Ryan]

Hmm, if I was person A I would try to convince Person B to... how you say appreciate you more. I doubt this will help but maybe tell B if he doesn't like you, that you two shouldn't be together? I doubt this will help you, but I tried.

[Contra]

I think you should leave B, for two reasons:

1- You love A more, and if he's so interested in your relationship, he must have some kind of feelings for you.
2- Apparently B is a jerk, A says that and you say he started to ignore you. If he's a flirt, I doubt he'll stop. Once a flirt, always a flirt.

So, what you should leave B and tell him you love someone else, he'll be sad but he'll understand. Then talk to A, to see if he would want to date you.

Good luck :)

(And don't worry, I read your other thread, so I know the story)

[nickw_2013]

I think it sounds like person A has some sort of feelings for you. Very rarely is a guy that interested in someones relationships unless he has feelings for that person.
With the way you seem to like person A so much more and the way person B is treating you it seems like breaking up with person B would be more beneficial to you.
Good luck and I hope it all works out well for you,
-Nick

[JesssLukeee]

I think you should leave B, for two reasons:

1- You love A more, and if he's so interested in your relationship, he must have some kind of feelings for you.
2- Apparently B is a jerk, A says that and you say he started to ignore you. If he's a flirt, I doubt he'll stop. Once a flirt, always a flirt.

So, what you should leave B and tell him you love someone else, he'll be sad but he'll understand. Then talk to A, to see if he would want to date you.

Good luck :)

(And don't worry, I read your other thread, so I know the story)

I think it sounds like person A has some sort of feelings for you. Very rarely is a guy that interested in someones relationships unless he has feelings for that person.
With the way you seem to like person A so much more and the way person B is treating you it seems like breaking up with person B would be more beneficial to you.
Good luck and I hope it all works out well for you,
-Nick





Thank you both soo much. I have decided to end it with Person B. Ever since I said yes he hasnt said a word to me and is being a jerk to my friends, and yeahh he really is a flirt :| I think I might end up telling Person A about my feelings,, once I build up some nerve=] I tell you both how it goes...with both guys

[nickw_2013]

Good luck:) Hope everything works out for you. Especially with person A :D