Experimenting

[CarnivorousBat]

Hey so I am away at a sleep away camp and I met this guy. He was really cool and we started hanging out. He told me he was gay and I told him that i was straight/curious but possibly bisexual. He just recently came to terms with his sexuality and has never done anything with a guy. I also have never done anything. We told each other that we are both attracted to one another.He wants to experiment and I do too but there is a little problem for me. I have never had a relationship with or even kissed anyone before. I don't want this to sound bad but I'm not sure I want my first kiss and sexual experience to be with a guy. The thing is I also still want to try it.

What should I do? Should I just try it anyway, or should I tell him my fears? I am really confused. Please Help!!

P.S. We dont feel comfortable coming out to the entire camp and therefore we would have to do everything in secrecy.

[nick]

Dont do it. Dont ever do anything that you do not feel entirely comfortable with or ready for.

[AwesomeAussie]

I totally agrre with nick don't do anything if you're gonna regret it

[Delusion15]

Pretty much what they said. When you are uncomfortable with doing something the best thing that can happen is that it will be a regret you will always have

[XpopularX]

do it!!!!!!

[beedubs]

dont do it. if you dont feel comfortable i dont think you should. you will have other relationships, why do it if you dont want to.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i dont think you should do anything that your not ready, just wait a while until you settle your hormones

[DanielBoy]

It is okay to experiment. I didn't have my first sexual experience with a guy, but I have allot of friends who have. The thing is, is that they don't really consider it a sexual experience, but just experimenting with guys. If you both want to, go for it! Oh, and the best thing you can do is to be open and tell him how you feel.

I hope I helped. :D

[ontarioboy]

if you don't feel comfortable, dont do it, but there's nothing wrong with experimenting.

[yoda]

Don't go for it if ya don't feel right with it.

[Billy15]

DJ, dude, if it doesn't feel right, then don't do it! Sex is cool I guess (haven't done it yet) but if I wasn't sure, if I thought I might feel bad after, if there was nothing more there then a quickie (being able to say I had sex) then I doubt seriously that I would do it but hey, that's me and how I think. Do what your heart tells you is right DJ, not your dick hehe.

[bond3108]

If you both feel attracted to each other then I'd say just go for it, experimentation is good :) . Just make sure that you're both definitely ready for it and relaxed :)

[bestever]

i say go for it as long as both of you are ready, i really think its just experimenting...

[DarkHorses]

If you're not fully comfortable with it don't do it. You should never do something relationship/sexual wise unless you're totally positive that you won't regret it. You need time to seriously think this kind of thing through, and you haven't been able to do that. So if I were you, I wouldn't do it.

[use65]

okay i'm a guy and i have masturbated before and i kinda want to try it with my friends...how do i go about getting them to do it with me

[bond3108]

Ask if they wanna watch some porn, then start like rubbing your crotch in your pants then if they don't react actually start wanking, then if they don't react say something like don't you want to wank to??? I don't mind ;) hahah see what they say. :) x

[JimSauce]

I definitely think that you shouldn't do it if you're not completely OK with it. If your gut is telling you that you'll regret it deeply down the road, don't go through with it!

About not wanting your first kiss to be a guy, that's a totally legitimate concern. If I grew out of puberty being completely straight and married a woman and had kids, I wouldn't want the words "first kiss" to bring up memories of some guy I met in camp.

[Joey15]

Only if you really want to you should do it. If your nervous tell him maybe hes feeling the same stuff

[cody2010]

i too agree with nick. if you aren't 100% on it, i wouldn't do it. you should think about it.

[Jason Ruechel]

I say do it. Not many people get a chance like that.