What should I do?

[Johnnny]

Ok, so me and my best friend are really close. We can tell each other anything. But one night I was sleeping at his house, and he has a full sized bunk bed with like a couch underneath and we sleep in the same bunk. we usually spoon buts its not a big deal, but that night i woke up and he was feeling around my body and eventually put his hand on my dick, then the next weekend I was really tired and layed to down to sleep and he thought i was alseep and as he lied down across from me he kissed me on the lips. i pretened to stay asleep because I didn't know what to do. but the thing is, i liked all of it, and kinda wanted him to know that i knew what he was doing and liked it and maybe try experimenting but i don't want to risk our friendship or him being completely gay in wanting it to turn into a different kind of friend. I'm straight by the way just a little curious. How should I tell him and should I even at all? thanks guys

[CarnivorousBat]

ver hard thing. im going through he same situation right now. hope some1 answers this for us

[Captor K]

Here's what i got out of that:

1. You're really close.
2. You spoon. See #1
3. He fondled your dick one night (while you're supposedly asleep)
4. He kissed your lips (while you're feigning sleep).
5. You liked it and want to experiment.

Seems to me that if he's touching and kissing you when he thinks you're asleep, he might want to experiment too. So, hell, throw caution to the wind, ask him if he wants to play around, and if he says yes, go for it and be careful and safe. I somehow doubt your friendship is in jeopardy by you asking, considering he seems extremely "fond" of you.

I'll also assume you are pretty young and your hormones are all over the place. I wouldn't even worry about the whole "gay" thing yet. Toss the idea out of your head and do what feels good to you and for you.

[curious_dude]

Captor K pretty much hit the nail on the head.

[cokeboy]

ya id say either let him know or next time ur "sleeping" and he
kisses u kiss him back or feel him. either way im sure hes gonna
enjoy it.

[Ender]

Here's what i got out of that:

1. You're really close.
2. You spoon. See #1
3. He fondled your dick one night (while you're supposedly asleep)
4. He kissed your lips (while you're feigning sleep).
5. You liked it and want to experiment.

Seems to me that if he's touching and kissing you when he thinks you're asleep, he might want to experiment too. So, hell, throw caution to the wind, ask him if he wants to play around, and if he says yes, go for it and be careful and safe. I somehow doubt your friendship is in jeopardy by you asking, considering he seems extremely "fond" of you.

I'll also assume you are pretty young and your hormones are all over the place. I wouldn't even worry about the whole "gay" thing yet. Toss the idea out of your head and do what feels good to you and for you.
Nicely put! Rep +1 :yes:

Hormones can make weird stuff happen, but obviously he wants something out of you, and is so scared of asking that hes resorting to it as you sleep. That wold be a red flag to me... but seeing as you kind of want it, kinda try to bring it up, and see if he wants to play around a little? If not let it go, if yes, be very careful and dont take it to far.

[MisterE]

well id say if you are into the idea, next time hes doing it, just give him a sign you like it and are awake, then one thing will lead to another, if you arnt into it, just tell him how you feel and dont want it to happen again.

[Dylan303]

Dude youre lucky. Go for it.

[Babobobo]

Understand that even if it's normal to do these things, it could still cause awkwardness. Hormones at this age create a whole different person when their levels are high.

[compguy710]

Just reach over a grab his cock next time. That will send the message!

[RisaLeigh16]

well next tym u go to his house just ask him if he wants to experiment...but u can tell him that you want to keep ur frendship the same and not go into a serious relationship.

[kdddd]

Here's what i got out of that:

1. You're really close.
2. You spoon. See #1
3. He fondled your dick one night (while you're supposedly asleep)
4. He kissed your lips (while you're feigning sleep).
5. You liked it and want to experiment.

Seems to me that if he's touching and kissing you when he thinks you're asleep, he might want to experiment too. So, hell, throw caution to the wind, ask him if he wants to play around, and if he says yes, go for it and be careful and safe. I somehow doubt your friendship is in jeopardy by you asking, considering he seems extremely "fond" of you.

I'll also assume you are pretty young and your hormones are all over the place. I wouldn't even worry about the whole "gay" thing yet. Toss the idea out of your head and do what feels good to you and for you.

Understand that even if it's normal to do these things, it could still cause awkwardness. Hormones at this age create a whole different person when their levels are high.

I would have to agree with both Captor K, and Babobobo

I think that you guys are close and it prolly would not have a bad/akward effect on your relationship. But i also think that there is always a chance that it will reck your relationship so i think you should go for it if thats what feels right but be carful as well

[Spunky]

It's seems like he wantes the same thing. If I were you I would try to bring up a conversation so u can bring up the topic

[Judas]

Here's what i got out of that:

1. You're really close.
2. You spoon. See #1
3. He fondled your dick one night (while you're supposedly asleep)
4. He kissed your lips (while you're feigning sleep).
5. You liked it and want to experiment.

Seems to me that if he's touching and kissing you when he thinks you're asleep, he might want to experiment too. So, hell, throw caution to the wind, ask him if he wants to play around, and if he says yes, go for it and be careful and safe. I somehow doubt your friendship is in jeopardy by you asking, considering he seems extremely "fond" of you.

I'll also assume you are pretty young and your hormones are all over the place. I wouldn't even worry about the whole "gay" thing yet. Toss the idea out of your head and do what feels good to you and for you.

Yeah, do that.

[AMili]

Next time your spooning reach over and grab his dick and maybe put his hand on yours

[soulcrusher24]

ya id say either let him know or next time ur "sleeping" and he
kisses u kiss him back or feel him. either way im sure hes gonna
enjoy it.

XD lol that's probably would be true. but if you don't feel comfortable with it just let him know . i think he will understand

[TySpeedy]

Ok, so me and my best friend are really close. We can tell each other anything. But one night I was sleeping at his house, and he has a full sized bunk bed with like a couch underneath and we sleep in the same bunk. we usually spoon buts its not a big deal, but that night i woke up and he was feeling around my body and eventually put his hand on my dick, then the next weekend I was really tired and layed to down to sleep and he thought i was alseep and as he lied down across from me he kissed me on the lips. i pretened to stay asleep because I didn't know what to do. but the thing is, i liked all of it, and kinda wanted him to know that i knew what he was doing and liked it and maybe try experimenting but i don't want to risk our friendship or him being completely gay in wanting it to turn into a different kind of friend. I'm straight by the way just a little curious. How should I tell him and should I even at all? thanks guys

HOW THE HELL DID YOU DO THAT?!?!?! I wish my guy friends did that to me.]:

Lol. :3

[Djlogout]

Here's what i got out of that:

1. You're really close.
2. You spoon. See #1
3. He fondled your dick one night (while you're supposedly asleep)
4. He kissed your lips (while you're feigning sleep).
5. You liked it and want to experiment.

Seems to me that if he's touching and kissing you when he thinks you're asleep, he might want to experiment too. So, hell, throw caution to the wind, ask him if he wants to play around, and if he says yes, go for it and be careful and safe. I somehow doubt your friendship is in jeopardy by you asking, considering he seems extremely "fond" of you.

I'll also assume you are pretty young and your hormones are all over the place. I wouldn't even worry about the whole "gay" thing yet. Toss the idea out of your head and do what feels good to you and for you.

Perfect answer to the point man

[neigh]

wake up -- and enjoy yourself.
if u r not in-2 this tell him.
sleep well -- happy dreams.
or just stay home -

[patq]

bro. c'mon really? dont let ur freind kissn u thats a lil weird no offence... i mean figure how ur mom and dad would feel if they catch u doin that to ur freind! man its ok to expirement but dude dont b tuchn each others penises and kissn each other thats not curious. thats having sexuall emotions and actions with another guy. and that is consider homo

[zander]

patq; man what are you talking about????????? its not about his parents its about him and his friends. jeeeeesss man what planet are you from

[miguelt]

just tell him that you werent asleep when he did all that and once you say that he'll start to defend himself...just tell him its okay and that you liked it...then just take things from there

[obknobe]

My friend and I started like that. We had to share a bed at the beach and I touched his foot with mine and pulled back; then he rubbed his foot against mine and I put my arm around him and touched his dick inside his underpants. He reached back and felt mine and we we were off to the races. We have an even closer relationship now than before. I bet we shot off 6 or 8 times that night and quietly, since there was another boy in a separate bed in that room. Relax and respond. Kiss him back and touch him back. I think talking about it would mess things up for you both

[axel3]

just tell him it could be FUN!

[playa85]

DUDE...its sounds like you both want to...so someone has to man up and make the next move..cuz if not your just torturing yourself with ¨what could be¨ scenarios....hope this helps...

[loverboy69]

Wake up and enjoy it!

[crazycoller]

I agree with what was said above- it seems like he wants to experiment with you as well so you need to open up to him and tell him what you know and that you want to experiment with him but nothing further. If he's your friend he'll understand

[DJK22]

well tell him how u feel toward him. im sure he'll be really understanding. and if turns out he's in love <3 with u n u dont love him well dont experiment, that'll put ur friendship in a bad position

[kamere]

you tell him that you know and that you enjoyed it and see what he says from that

[Brandon K]

tell him

[loverboy69]

Let him know.

[JJSSHH]

i wish i was going through that, i have tried to bring up experimentin with friends but they just say ew gay

[quackda93]

I think you should come straight forward with him... since you can tell him anything. I think that would be the best idea right now

[playa85]

Let us know how it goes....

[patq]

hey i didnt say it was about his parents im just sayin he needs to think this through i mean maybe u guys want to expiirement thats fine and all but im just telln u dont b kissn in stuff man seriously thats a lil gay and i know ur curious and stuff dude but just dont take it soo far. then it may ruin ur freindship and zander im from earth u dumbazz and i have my own opinion and if u dont like then dont say anything

[playa85]

LOL...i agree with patq....you should think about it seriously....it is going real far and maybe thats what you want to do...but maybe your just curious to see another guys junk, thats a big difference from putting it in your mouth....lol

[GagaAlex]

Just say to him you know what he did and question him, If he says hes gay or bi say you enjoyed and go from there :)

[NVerson]

Why don't to u ask your friend whether he's gay/bi or not?
And regardless of what his sexuality is, tell him exactly what you wanna say.
Good luck John~

[KodieBear]

Well I've never been in that situation before so I would take my advice too seriously. But if it were me, I would just let it slide unless it happens again. If it does, just tell him, and be sure to let him know your just experimenting and that you don't want it to go too far.

[Harley Quinn]

please dont bump old threads :locked: