Lonely for 15 years

[singeramber]

I have never had a relationship and alot of my friends are in couples, I have been complaining about it for about 6 months and alot of people tell me to wait but every guy I like, we either stay as friends or we fall out and lose contact...


I dont know what to do?? :confused:

I know waiting would be the best idea but... sometimes my mind wanders... :(
x

[steve1234]

I'm 18, and never been in a relationship, so you're not alone! :)
I'm guessing your 15 judging from the post title. Well, 15 is still quite a young age to be dating. Most people don't start dating until later.

I have a good mix of males and females in my friend group, everyone in my friend group has been in a relationship, and those that haven't had a relationship have 'made out' with boys/girls. It really gets to me, and It makes me think I'm ugly or have a bad personality.

This is a difficult thing to do, and I struggle to do it, but you just have to not worry about it, and just wait for the right guy, like other people have said.

Also, with many girls, they like a guy and wait for him to do the moves. I don't know if this is the case with you, but if you like a guy, you should let him know. Don't always rely on us guys to make all the moves. You never know, a guy you like may like you back, but may be too shy to ask you out, or like a lot of us guys will not pick up the signals that you like him.

Just stay positive. Relationships arn't all fun and games anyway, so make the most out of being single.

[singeramber]

Thanks steve! and yeah I always tell a guy after I've made friends of course that I like them but then we just remain friends x :what:

[Jess]

don't worry, I'm the same as you. a lot of people are older than you and don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend either. The right guy will come along :)

[nickw_2013]

I think Jess pretty much covered it. You'll find someone eventually, I have a friend that was headed into college and hadn't ever had a boyfriend before and the last day of school the guy she really liked asked her out. Someone will come along eventually

[Katrina]

You need to believe in yourself, love yourself and realize your incredible grandeur, worth and strength. I know you're worthy of being loved, now you just have to know that, too. Think about it; how many times have you been attracted to a guy who didn't like himself? A guy who exudes insecurity and uncertainty is just not appealing. Well the same goes for you. So it's time for you to realize your magnificence, and start emanating it.
And rather than wait for the boys to talk to you – believe me, I know it's more comfortable and less threatening that way – practice emitting your confidence by approaching them. I know it's scary, and easier said than done, but its well worth the risk. What's the worst that can happen? The conversation's a flop? The two of you don't hit it off? Okay, well then you're no worse off than you were before you started the conversation, right? Right! And what's more, the more you approach guys, the less scary it will become and the more practice you'll get at doing it. And as I always advise, fake it till you make it; fake confidence and coolness when you're talking to members of the opposite sex and pretty soon, you won't be faking it anymore, you'll be a pro!
And lastly, please, please, please stop putting so much pressure on yourself. The less you think about the fact that you don't have a boyfriend, the more likely you are to meet someone. Things always happen when we least expect them to. And I guarantee you, this will happen for you.
Always believe in yourself, and never question you're normalcy. You're the perfect you!
Good luck!

[singeramber]

Thanks Katrina and Jess :D x

[Paladino]

The right person will come along, trust me, then you will be in a happy and strong relationship.

[The Red Devil]

I agree with what people above have said. I have only had one girlfriend and im 16 next week. You need to tell a guy you like them, if he doesnt ask you out after that and youve given him plenty of signals you should think about asking him yourself.

A lot of guys are to shy and nervous to make the first move all the time. Sometimes we like the girls to be making the first moves for a change.

[DanielBoy]

Sometimes you have to make the move. The first few weeks of a relationship is for two people to get to know each other. You don't have to be best friends with a guy, or friends at all, to ask him out. You will get to know each other, and it should work. Make a move.

I hope I helped. :D

[singeramber]

Daniel you dont know how many times I have tried that!

[Azunite]

Same here :)

[jackfergusion]

I think you have to improve your self confidence and also your personality. Make your self enough romantic for your loving one if you got. Make people interested in you and for this you can get help online. If you get your loved one than take care of him for his every need and be so caring towards your partner.

[Azunite]

We know what do to if a girl loves us, the problem is we cant love anyone or noone loves us lol

[Aves]

You'll find someone :) I was 16 when I had my first girlfriend. It's gonna happen one day :)

[Azunite]

Yeah, I guess we'll find one ..