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karnivore
July 19th, 2010, 11:19 AM
Have you come out yet? How did you do it?
If not, when would you like to?
curiousteen
July 19th, 2010, 11:39 AM
i havent came out yet but u know idk if i ever want to come out to my parents but i wouldnt mind coming out to my friends. Wbu?
Razors edge
July 19th, 2010, 12:27 PM
I haven't yet and it would be around 18 if I did come out.
Even if I wanted to now, you'd have the "It's one of those things, it will pass, you're just curious"
My mind set is well advanced for a 14 year old, but some people treat me like I'm 8, and thats what would happen in this instance.
honeybear
July 19th, 2010, 12:43 PM
I came out as bi when I was 13...parents are ok with it I kept getting told by people that I was still young and I didnt know what I wanted... I just rolled my eyes and ignored themI never got any real crap about it tho
karl
July 19th, 2010, 01:34 PM
I didn't get that choice. I was caught by my father
karnivore
July 19th, 2010, 03:34 PM
I've told a few people, but it was mostly because they asked and I didn't want to lie.
MisterE
July 19th, 2010, 04:52 PM
im not comign out till im certin that im bi, and even if i was, i dont know if i would,
Mysterious Skin
July 20th, 2010, 07:29 PM
Not now i think mayb when im older
Jagster
July 20th, 2010, 11:51 PM
I came out in 7th grade. But do to me being in a new school, I have to come out again. And again, twice, when i'm in highschool. Why twice? My family is moving after my sophomore year.
Syvelocin
July 21st, 2010, 05:25 PM
I'm not completely out yet, but I told my mother, who replied with, "I think I can live with that. As long as you're not pregnant or doing drugs."
I just, you know, told her. Worked well enough. She's supposed to be telling my dad sometime.
To everyone else, I'm coming out to my long-distance friends very soon, once I get up the courage, and my school friends on National Coming Out Day.
yoda
July 21st, 2010, 10:41 PM
No not yet, but lately i really have wanted tell the ones that are close to me that i am bi but i just can't get myself to do it. But soon i will say it tho, just to get it out.
NeverTooLate
July 21st, 2010, 10:46 PM
I'm out i just told my mom and a few friends feels great ^_^
Tavi
August 2nd, 2010, 11:04 PM
I haven't come out yet to my parents. One or two of my friends know. I plan on coming out to my parents senior year of high school. I'm bi btw.
Andrzej
August 3rd, 2010, 10:32 AM
I am gay, and I'm still too nervous about coming out. I promised myself I'll do it once I'm in college.
Captor K
August 3rd, 2010, 12:56 PM
I've done it to a couple of friends by instant message and texting.
I'm off to college in about two weeks, so I'll definitely come out there, and start man-shopping.
I haven't come out to my family, because like some families, they aren't all that gay friendly. And I already know the conversations that are going to follow my coming out, and I just don't have the patience to want to address it right now. So I'm bidding my time.
darren1990
August 3rd, 2010, 02:05 PM
i came out when i was 12, i told all my friends and family, i always knew i was gay and so did my family so it all went well :)
Billy15
August 3rd, 2010, 02:31 PM
Considering my parents haven't got a clue and if they did it will kill them, I doubt seriously if I will ever tell them. Same with the area that we live in because it is extremely homophobic so if I ever do come out, it's probably not going to be until I can move away from home and live my life proudly.
DanielBoy
August 4th, 2010, 03:24 AM
I just recently came out to one of my good friends, an old friend who is gay, and the only other person who knows is the guy I am trying to start a relationship with. I plan on telling some of my good friends, but I don't plan on being open about it until college. I have not come out to my parents nor do I plan on doing so until I am with the love of my life, and we start sending wedding invitations. I am bisexual by the way. :D
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