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JesssLukeee
July 18th, 2010, 05:10 AM
Okay, so basically I like this guy lets call him Person A... we have lots in common and where very close friends last semester, and still kinda are (cause were in the same group) thing even seemed to be going toward dating, he did this thing where he would hug me around the waist from behind cause he knew it scared the crap out of me and tickled. He always did it and it was heaps funny. Anyway we got our new classes for this new semester and I don't have any classes with him anymore which is really gay so we dont see each other as much =[. I like him lots (Not to say I dont have some interest in some other guys).

On the holidays I found out from my friends that one of my other close friends had a huge crush on me, lets call him person B (and he was one of the others I have interest in). He ended up telling me this week that he really did like me. So it wasnt a rumor... anyway on thursay afternoon my friend made him ask me out, which was extremely awkward. I asked him if I could tell him later, and he said sure. By now I was extremely confused about my feelings for him. I had no idea what I was going to say, and we both ignored each other the next day. I think I sort of like him but not as much as person A. Anyway, it is now sunday, and I'm not sure what to do... I could say yes, and we would have lots of fun. But I feel really bad and slu*tty knowing that I would probably dump him for person A.

I feel horrible, but don't know what to do. Would it be bad to go out with person B even if I still reallly like person A?? They are both close friends of mind. Please help someone, what are your opinions? Girls what would you do in my situtation?? And guys what would you want me to do if you were in either of the 2 guys situation??

Thankss:confused:

** Oh and person A has no idea that I like him, and I might be too scared to tell him.
Sorry if it was a long read,, I typed more than I thought I would:yes:

Contra
July 18th, 2010, 07:41 AM
You have to think about yours and his feelings. If you like person A more than you like person B, you shouldn't date the last one, because you would be giving him false hopes and possibly break his heart if you end up with person A.
Besides, you don't like him as much as you like person A, so even if you weren't able to tell person A about your feelings, if you ended having a relationship with person B it would a bit unfulfilled, because you don't like him as much as he likes you.

Good luck! :)

Lord C
July 18th, 2010, 11:21 AM
I agree with Arctic Monkey. If you like Person A more then go for it with him. Also, I think the fact that you had to ask people about this kinda says you want to be with Person A more, otherwise you would have said yes to Person B.

In the end it's up to you but I think you have to either say yes to Person B or ask Person A out. Don't be scared of telling him.

Krazymitch
July 19th, 2010, 04:23 AM
i also agree with Arctic Monkey

If you go out with person B its not fair on him, and coming from a guy, if i was person B i would say go out with person A/ask Person A because i wouldnt want to have my heart broken...

so yeah, i agree with above, "you don't like him as much as you like person A, so even if you weren't able to tell person A about your feelings, if you ended having a relationship with person B it would a bit unfulfilled, because you don't like him as much as he likes you" <<< agreed.

xox