Birthday sex with my girlfriend?

[taurus_123]

Hey everyone
Right me and my girlfriend (both 14) and I have been together for 5 strong months, but my girlfriends birthdays coming up and by then we will be pushing 6 months, and my girlfriend wants to have sex with me?
What should I do because I really love her but I'm nervous?

[Andrew Ryan]

If you're nervous about it, than you are probably not ready to have it. Maybe talk to her or something, I'm sure she has plenty of birthdays, and maybe you won't be as nervous in a year or two.

[Jess]

I think if you're nervous like this, you aren't really ready, you guys can always have it when you're older (she has plenty of birthdays!)

talk to her about it

[Sage]

I think at 14 the thought shouldn't even cross your mind.

[Clawhammer]

You guys still haven't been together for very long, and you're both very young. I say save it for later when you're sure it's the right person. I doubt the few minutes of pleasure are truly worth the risk.

[eltomo]

My girlfriend's birthday was last week and she didn't even mention sex, and we have being going out for 3 and a bit months so you shouln't do something you don't feel ready to do.

[aaronbrumbrum22]

never do anything sexual that you don't want to do

[Sasha]

If you have to ask then you aren't ready

[misery_business]

Like everyone said you're only 14 and it's a bad idea.
I don't think it's a very good idea either, it could be risky plus you don't have to do it if you don't want to and if you guys really love each other you can wait and maybe do it when your more secure and comfortable with each other :)
good luck !

[nickw_2013]

If you're nervous about it, you're probably not ready. I'm not gonna say you're to young to be thinking about even doing it, but it would probably be better to wait a little bit till you're older and you're sure shes the right person. That way it'll be a lot more special and meaningful for both of you.

[Voodoo]

Well remember losing your virginity is actually a big deal, it can affect futcher dating and other things, including in your wedding you can't have on white if you're not a vermin. BUT if you do plan to have sex, make sure she's using birth control and you're using a condom just in case a condom or the birth control fails. Remember no rubber no love.

Also it's illegal to have sex under the age of 16, and to post it under the age of 18, and whom ever is older can be charged with rape... Your parents can put rape charges against the older one, so be careful.

[Sage]

Well remember losing your virginity is actually a big deal, it can affect futcher dating and other things, including in your wedding you can't have on white if you're not a vermin.

Not really, it's only a big deal to people who are insecure and prudish about that sort of thing. If anything, I think it's better not to marry the first person you have sex with- you'll be better at it. Don't get the wrong idea though, you're 14, keep your dick to yourself for now bro.

Second, last I checked, you can where whatever the hell you want to your wedding. I was born before my parents were married, and my mother wore white on her wedding day. Hell, some family friends of ours got married in jeans and common dress shirts.

Lastly, you said vermin. Teeheehee. That's being sig'd.

[love_linds]

well me and my boyfriend were together for tens months before we finally had sex. and even tho i said i really wanted to, he wouldnt. which made me love him even more, knowing that he cared for me that much. he didnt just be lik OK! and he didnt put himself first.
i think you should do the same. especially at your age.

[nickw_2013]

Well remember losing your virginity is actually a big deal, it can affect futcher dating and other things, including in your wedding you can't have on white if you're not a vermin. BUT if you do plan to have sex, make sure she's using birth control and you're using a condom just in case a condom or the birth control fails. Remember no rubber no love.

Also it's illegal to have sex under the age of 16, and to post it under the age of 18, and whom ever is older can be charged with rape... Your parents can put rape charges against the older one, so be careful.
I don't think someones virginity is gonna affect the color of their clothing choices...

And its not rape if they both consent unless one is over 18 and the other is a minor.

[MacMilker]

That song always annoyed me.

Do it.

Use protection.

[Sage]

Do it.

Use protection.

That's terrible advice. These kids are hardly fourteen.

[Raptor22]

Well, we have to be realistic here. Everyone is nervous before their first time, they dont know what they are doing, they dont want to fuck up, they dont want to do something wrong. I say if she is ready for it and she will be 15, I say its a good time.

I'll be in the minority and say go for it dude, but please protect yourself.

[Taylorxbox]

It suprised me that SHE wanted to have sex.

But like everyone else said, it probably wouldnt be a good idea at 14 if you are nervous.

Just ask her if you guys can old off for a little while

[Triceratops]

No.

To put it straight, you're underage and unlikely to be responsible or mature enough in the slightest.

Well remember losing your virginity is actually a big deal, it can affect futcher dating and other things, including in your wedding you can't have on white if you're not a vermin. BUT if you do plan to have sex, make sure she's using birth control and you're using a condom just in case a condom or the birth control fails. Remember no rubber no love.

Please tell me you're not this foolish in reality? What a nonsensical thing for you to say.

Moreover, what you've mentioned about wearing white to a wedding is ludicrous. I'm a virgin, and I intend to remain that way until marriage, yet I plan to wear a black or dark violet dress.

[mudgee]

Hey Man if your gonna do that at least wear a condom

[xhelgrindx]

I don't think anyone should have sex till they are married. I want to save myself for my wife. Just imagine your pretty much cheating on your future wife. That's how I see it. Don't let her force you do something you don't want to do. Me and my gf have been dating now for almost 7 months now and we've done some stuff we both regret and we decided that we don't want to do anything like that ever again unless we get married. I believe it's made our relationship stronger by not doing stuff like that. I hope that she's my future wife cause I wouldn't be able to tell another woman my wife that I've done stuff like that. Hope you make the right decision =)

[Babobobo]

Try to avoid it. Maybe tease her but don't promise anything. Whatever happens that night, make sure your penis does NOT enter her.