First time problem

[Angusyoung95]

I've aranged to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time and I want it to be good. I also want to last longer than 4min which is what I expect lol.
Is wanking earlier that day a good idea to last a bit longer?

[Kaius]

To be honest, whatever you do your first time is not going to last that long. Though Masturbating the day before should help prolong your ejaculation for that little bit longer i should imagine.

[Spoookster]

Not really. It depends. If you are really sensitive once u get in her vagina u will cum very soon. I don't think masturbating b4 has anything to do with lasting longer.

[Mynameisconner]

I always thought that masturbating that day would help. I'm not sure because I'm a virgin, but goodluck! I'm sure she wont be disappointed. Don't freak yourself out! It's normal.

[biboy96]

Masturbate 4 times before you do it.
And do foreplay, so she doesn't last too long.

[nick]

Not really. It depends. If you are really sensitive once u get in her vagina u will cum very soon. I don't think masturbating b4 has anything to do with lasting longer.
I agree with this, I think its a bit of a myth about the wanking earlier thing. If you're sensitive and over excited you might blow quickly, nothing you can do about it, it happens.

Masturbate 4 times before you do it.
And do foreplay, so she doesn't last too long.
Well obviously foreplay and plenty of it, but if you do finish first just remember its not job done for her and finish her off some other way. Wanking 4 times in the day will just mean you have hardly any spunk left and that doesnt give a very good impression. You have to weigh up the fact that you dont want to cum to soon against the fact that you'd kind of like the cum shot to be impressive.

Make sure you use a condom even if she's on the pill, that will reduce the sensitivity on your penis and might help you last longer.

Also just be aware that some guys get the opposite problem. Stage fright and nerves can make it hard to cum at all.

[AwesomeAussie]

your first time is always going to be short masturbating before hand will prolong your ejaculating only a little but your still going to ejaculate pretty fast. just do some foreplay that will prolong the fun that you both have together and truthfully she or you should not really care how long it lasts if your both having fun

[JUSTI]

Not really. It depends. If you are really sensitive once u get in her vagina u will cum very soon. I don't think masturbating b4 has anything to do with lasting longer.

I think that sounds about right.

[Shortkid]

I'd say don't jo for a week before that way you will be super hard and shoot lots that should impress her.

[Mynameisconner]

Foreplay. That's a good idea. Maybe try to think about un appealing facts if your really worried about how long you'll last. Maybe even talk about it to her. Your concerns that is. I'm sure she'd understand.

[Noah_101]

This is something I have actually been thinking about recently because me and my g/f have talked about having sex.....im nervous that i wont last very long my first time.
My good friend told me that when he had sex the first time he j/o before hand and he did ok...like 10 mins but then he said when they did it again like 1hr later he lasted 15-20 minutes.
Just dont worry about it and make sure that you both take the time to enjoy it. Its not all about performance...its about being together.

[Koby]

Not really. It depends. If you are really sensitive once u get in her vagina u will cum very soon. I don't think masturbating b4 has anything to do with lasting longer.

/facepalm

[soulcrusher24]

Not really. It depends. If you are really sensitive once u get in her vagina u will cum very soon. I don't think masturbating b4 has anything to do with lasting longer.

that's what i think

[Milo1234]

im not sure how to last longer, all i can say is enjoy it man dont worry

[DanielBoy]

Yes, it will help. It helps to relieve some of your sexual tension, and will help to take the edge off. However, chances are your first will be quick, and if it is her first time, it will probably be quick for her too. I suggest taking it slow, with allot of romantic foreplay, and it will prolong the entire night, without having it be over really fast. I masturbated a few hours before, and did some romantic foreplay for about an hour during my first time, it really helped; I still only lasted like 3 or 4 minutes, trying my hardest to bring it out longer, but we both enjoyed it because the ENTIRE experience was almost an hour and a half, so it worked out good.

Good Luck, and I hope this helps. :D

[Judas]

I don't know if there is anything you can do. Just have fun.

[Hoshwaa]

I think to be honest "arranging" to have sex is never the best idea, letting it just happen works much better. But i think wanking first might help, but i wouldnt get your hopes up. Just have a good time, and be protected.

[VTry007]

This is something I have actually been thinking about recently because me and my g/f have talked about having sex.....im nervous that i wont last very long my first time.
My good friend told me that when he had sex the first time he j/o before hand and he did ok...like 10 mins but then he said when they did it again like 1hr later he lasted 15-20 minutes.
Just dont worry about it and make sure that you both take the time to enjoy it. Its not all about performance...its about being together.

When you get together with your girl to have sex, the first time you do it that night the boy will come in a few minutes because boys are like that.

So... what you do is after the first time you do it you wait 15 minutes or so (more foreplay) and do it a second time, where you will last longer.

Then... after another wait period you can do it a third time.

Essentially, you just realize that the first time that night is more about the boy after focusing on the girl in foreplay.

Then, when the boy takes longer doing it again, it becomes more about the girl. And once the girl has an orgasm, it is easier to for her to have another orgasm.

Do you see the picture? The more often the boy has an orgasm, the longer it takes. The more often the girl has an orgasm, the shorter it takes.

Therefore, the activity is naturally more focused with the boy at the beginning of the night and the activity naturally becomes more focused with the girl as the night goes on.

So, no, you should NOT masturbate beforehand because that would just interfere with giving the girl more pleasure as the night goes on. Right?

I'm sure every boy here can j/o three times within 1 or 2 hours.

I bet a few will start bragging about how many times they can do it and therefore give the girl more pleasure. Do you think the girl will like it if you can do it multiple times?

[SWMG]

It migt help but yes you should do some foreplay but what you have to remember is that you have to enjoy don't be worried about the time you have to both enjoy it and that way it will be better for both of you and it is still your first time so enjoy

[Patchy]

foreplay etc will help, and when your having sex don't try to do it fast thinking it will give her more pleasure cause it will make you cum quicker (just like when you wank).

Your not going to last a good while on your first time but just pace yourself. Remember not to get too excited and to race through it.

[neigh]

i can not help u with any information. i have not had sex with a girl. {yet}
must guys i talk 2 say it is normal to last like 5 min. or so. let us know how u made out. and make sure to bring a watch.