Confused

[mxrider155]

I have always thought of myself as straight, and have always been attracted to girls. Just, now, I can see myself with either a girl or a guy, just someone who is right for me, can be there for me, and can make me happy. I have to say i am currently very confused, and a little scared, as I have never felt this way before. Just looking for some advice.

[beedubs]

well, there is a sexuality called pansexual. it meens you dont care about gender/sexuality, just the person themself. or you may be bi-sexual. you may not know for afew years. just relax, youll figue it out soon

[CuriousDestruction]

well, i always advise people not to worry about labeling yourself. but this sounds like pansexuality in a nutshell. looking beyond gender or sex and only at the person as they are inside. for right now, just date who you want and don't worry about their gender. you have time to figure it out.

[mxrider155]

Thanks for the advice, but just curious: is there really a difference between pansexual and bi-sexual?

[nick]

Thanks for the advice, but just curious: is there really a difference between pansexual and bi-sexual?
I dont really believe there is a difference, but then I dont really believe in labels anyway.

I agree with the earlier advice, just stay relaxed, go with the flow for now and in time it will become more clear. There is nothing to be scared about, but you need to stay open minded and be happy to accept yourself for who you are.

[Mynameisconner]

NO need to label. All that does is leave less room for fluctuation. You dont need to choose one or the other. Just find someone who makes you "happy". Dont worry if that makes you pansexual or anything. :)

[beedubs]

really there is not a big difference. but yea dont lable yourself. i was just saying :P

[Voodoo]

You may be bisexual it's nothing to be ashamed about