morris13624
July 16th, 2010, 11:05 PM
So last night my girlfriend and I were at a party. I was over at the computer looking for a good song to play and after I put one on one of the other guys there was moving his face away from my girlfriends. Now I won't lie I had had a few drinks but I wasn't really drunk however I had been acting quite drunk just trying to bring some life to the party. Anyway my gf goes babe would be mad if (other guy) kissed me on the lips and at this point every one was having a good time and I wasn't going to say anything or make a big deal out of what I had thought just happened. So like a jackass I said no whatever idc.
So anyway the rest of the night went on I was in her arms the whole night we slept in bed together she had to wake up and go to to work so she did and I woke up later on and visited her before I myself went to work. We hung out for a good hour and I really didn't wanna bring any of it up until tonight but once I got to work I broke down and texted her all about it and we got into an argument and I ended up just turning my phone off. She says that the other guy just kissed her hand and that was that, but like I said I swear I saw his face coming away from hers.
So I texted my friend who happens to be the (other guy's) brother. He tells me that no they did not kiss on the lips he just kissed her forehead. So now I'm like okay not a big deal but I'm now thinking...why did she lie to me and tell me it was her hand and not just say he kissed her forehead?
I am texting other people from the party right now to see because right now I only have forehead from one person and hand from one person so I want to see what others say. I guess what I want to know is...is it really a big deal? I mean it doesn't seem like a big deal to me but why lie about being kissed on the hand or the forehead? Maybe it was the hand and my other friend is wrong idk. So am I making too big a deal out of nothing or should I consider the fact that maybe she is lying...idk I'm really confused as to what think.
Oh and now I just got a text from another person who also said forehead...so thats 2 people who were observing it all that say forehead and she says hand. This is really bugging me. What should I do, I want to just talk to her about it but I know I will just get mad and it will blow up into one huge thing. Should I just take a day or two off and then try talking to her about it? Should I text more people and see what they say?
So anyway the rest of the night went on I was in her arms the whole night we slept in bed together she had to wake up and go to to work so she did and I woke up later on and visited her before I myself went to work. We hung out for a good hour and I really didn't wanna bring any of it up until tonight but once I got to work I broke down and texted her all about it and we got into an argument and I ended up just turning my phone off. She says that the other guy just kissed her hand and that was that, but like I said I swear I saw his face coming away from hers.
So I texted my friend who happens to be the (other guy's) brother. He tells me that no they did not kiss on the lips he just kissed her forehead. So now I'm like okay not a big deal but I'm now thinking...why did she lie to me and tell me it was her hand and not just say he kissed her forehead?
I am texting other people from the party right now to see because right now I only have forehead from one person and hand from one person so I want to see what others say. I guess what I want to know is...is it really a big deal? I mean it doesn't seem like a big deal to me but why lie about being kissed on the hand or the forehead? Maybe it was the hand and my other friend is wrong idk. So am I making too big a deal out of nothing or should I consider the fact that maybe she is lying...idk I'm really confused as to what think.
Oh and now I just got a text from another person who also said forehead...so thats 2 people who were observing it all that say forehead and she says hand. This is really bugging me. What should I do, I want to just talk to her about it but I know I will just get mad and it will blow up into one huge thing. Should I just take a day or two off and then try talking to her about it? Should I text more people and see what they say?