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dude14
July 16th, 2010, 11:03 PM
i have a fried that is a girl and she knows i like her. one day after she told all my friends in person she told me over txt she was moving to austrailia..... i was pist. she had a boyfriend at the time so i was mean to her about it and then he broke up with her cuz she triked him to cuz she didnt like him. but she wants to go out with my other friend who makes fun of her like none other, how do i tell her im sorry and hes a jerk dont like him how to say goodbye and how to snach her before she is gone.....????? help!
Spoookster
July 17th, 2010, 04:50 AM
just follow ur instincts and tell her.. Be honest.. Talk to her face to face :) Don't txt her.. Just be a man!!!
Kaius
July 17th, 2010, 04:54 AM
:arrow2: Relationships and Dating
Sage
July 17th, 2010, 05:12 PM
Benj, my man, I'm going to give you some advice you probably won't enjoy hearing but you'll be grateful for it later.
Don't snatch her before she leaves. I don't know how old you are (feel free to correct me), but if you're 14 as your username suggests, don't waste your teenage years chasing a tail on the other side of the ocean. In fact, it doesn't matter how old you are. You've your entire life ahead of you to find other people, and obsessing over someone that (And I'm genuinely sorry to say this) is unobtainable is exceedingly unhealthy and will only result in causing you further grief and stress.
Simple advice?
Try to get over it. Consider yourself a free man, with a future full of relationship opportunities. She's still your friend, so you should appreciate the time you two have left to hang out together in person. You'll likely not see her again in person for a long time, so do you want to spend your last hours together grieving over what can't be (romance), or enjoying what you already have (friendship)?
dude14
July 17th, 2010, 09:59 PM
I cant realy hang with her cuz i sed id rather her not go one time over the phone hung up and she told the rest of my friends i was a stalker and my friends are mean to her wen she is gone. After i sed dont go we just hung up then she caled me a stalker after i waited three days for her to say something so i deleated her from my phone and face book so she cant call me a stalker. But she just told my friend i was and he told me this like ten min ago
Sage
July 18th, 2010, 11:19 AM
I cant realy hang with her cuz i sed id rather her not go one time over the phone hung up and she told the rest of my friends i was a stalker and my friends are mean to her wen she is gone. After i sed dont go we just hung up then she caled me a stalker after i waited three days for her to say something so i deleated her from my phone and face book so she cant call me a stalker. But she just told my friend i was and he told me this like ten min ago
Then move on. She's clearly not worth your time.
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