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Lifeguard18
July 16th, 2010, 07:05 PM
READ THIS FIRST THEN COME BACK TO THIS THREAD:

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=77753

so my feelings for him are becoming more and more. we talk all the time and today, we were suppose to hang out together at the mall, but he thought it was tomorrow and he was at the shore tonight. i was pretty bummed out and sad and i kind of wanted to cry a bit. i was looking forward to it all day at work, i couldnt even focus that good. haha

so next week we are going to plan a date and hopefully things go right. lol.

well tonight about the shore thing, i txted telling him what days i have off and when i come home early from work. so at a good time we are going to chose a day to hang out together.

he txted me saying: Ill make sure i dont forget this time. lol
I txted: lol. im dying to hang out with you lol.
He txted: lol me too [=

and we talked some more and all and eventually ended the convo.

but idk how to tell him that i like him. or idk if he has an interest in me. should i tell him when we hang out or over a txt, or through facbook? SOMEONE HELP ME OUT! lol

i think, THINK, he may be the one for me and i can finally have somebody to love. he wants the same too.

i constantly think about him like crazy.

I HAVE A CRUSH :)

but my main question is how do i tell him and when is the right time too?

thanks
DrkZ90
July 16th, 2010, 07:46 PM
when you hang out (which should be asap), tell him, that way he will know you're serious about it...
Lifeguard18
July 16th, 2010, 09:13 PM
when you hang out (which should be asap), tell him, that way he will know you're serious about it...

Thanks but how do I say it to him. And we can only hang when I have off or I get out early.
DrkZ90
July 16th, 2010, 10:29 PM
When you're together, tell him that you really like him a lot, and that you've fallen for him, that should be it...

and/or bluntly say if he would like to date...

I don't have much experience, but I think that should be the right way...
Lifeguard18
July 16th, 2010, 11:28 PM
When you're together, tell him that you really like him a lot, and that you've fallen for him, that should be it...

and/or bluntly say if he would like to date...

I don't have much experience, but I think that should be the right way...

thanks. i guess ill try that. im usually the one giving this advice now im asking for it. lmao
confusedboy23
July 17th, 2010, 01:46 AM
good luck. i hope things go right for you.
Mynameisconner
July 17th, 2010, 12:45 PM
If I were you, i'd definately tell him before. That way there is no suprise when you do meet up, and if he feels the same way he will have more things to look forward to ;). Although, it's not face to face, it would still bring you closer. That would allow things to go more smoothly because he would know your feelings, and you would know his. That in my opinion would be the easiest route. Goodluck, I hope you guys are great for each other :)
Lifeguard18
July 18th, 2010, 06:15 PM
well i told him over a txt that i like him and all, but he hasnt answered back yet and has been a few hours. idk how he feels about me telling him that i like him, if he is upset, angry, happy.

i want to txt him back but idk what to say to him. idk if it will be awkward or not, but im sure it would be.

i think i told him to early, and i dont think i should have told him that this early. i think i messed up, already, and nothing has happened between us yet.

any help please or advice please. should i txt him back, if so, what should i say?

thanks.
DrkZ90
July 18th, 2010, 07:19 PM
text him again, and ask if everything is ok?

also, tell him that if he doesn't feel the same it's ok, and that you can still be friends.
Lifeguard18
July 18th, 2010, 07:40 PM
text him again, and ask if everything is ok?

also, tell him that if he doesn't feel the same it's ok, and that you can still be friends.

thanks. i hope this works. i dont want an argument to break out (which wont happen hopefully lol) ill just see how this goes