What sexuality am I?

[death_by_guitar182]

Hey everyone. Thanks for looking. I'm a 14 year old male and I'm very confused. I am sexually attracted to girls, not to guys. However, I am open to everyone and right now I have a boyfriend whom I love. I think he is beautiful. Most guys I'm not physically attracted to just him really and a few others maybe..? People have said I'm bi or pansexual. But if I was bi wouldn't that mean I would like guys sexually? I'm very confused any help is appreciated :D thanks in advance.

[Kaius]

:arrow2: Teen Sexuality

[nick]

My main advice to you is not to worry about the label, or certainly dont worry about it just yet. Go with the flow, have what ever relationships feel right in your heart and over time things will become more clear. Personally I dont believe in this 3 point scale that goes Straight / Bi / Gay, I know I dont fit conveniently onto that system.

[Syvelocin]

There are three main attractions, emotional, physical, and sexual. Some people say that to be bi you have to feel some of all types of attractions for both sexes.

I do consider myself bi (better yet, I'm pansexual, but that's just a little more specific. I identify as bi for the ease) but have more of a desire for sexual encounters with girls than guys, and I do have a few grudges toward guys as far as the emotional aspect of the relationship.

There really is no set description to me. You can say you're bi, or that you like blonds, but that doesn't mean you're going to like all blonds because not all blonds look the same... if that makes sense. You have skin color, eye color, facial structure, body structure, so many more components that go into the attraction. You can't really just say that you like blonds, or that you like both sexes. That's just the bigger picture.

Hope that made at least a bit of sense.

[biboy96]

I'd Say You could be anything... You're 14 ;)

[Mynameisconner]

Yeah. I think your attracted to both in different ways. That makes it confusing

[chaoscatcher]

bisexual is more than just sex, bisexual is where you can love both boys and girls, its not just sex,

[laker]

I think you should just not worry about it right now. There is plenty of time in the future. And so what if ur bi or gay or straight just be happy

[lolimbrando]

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