what should i have done?!

[Judas]

today afternoon at the pool i was taking a swim lesson with my coach. one-on-one. my coach was quite muscly with a bit of chest hair and a happy trail. i was doing backstroke with him following me, holding me underneath on my back, and my dick started growing. im not gay though. i was semi-erect for the lap and i couldve sworn he saw. i made an excuse to go to the bathroom, with my swim trunks still clinging to my skin, and i looked down to see what my coach wouldve saw. the outline of my semi-erect cock was soo obvious and it was this big bulge!!! so embarrassing. what should i have done? or what would you have done?

[zander]

you cant help that stuff its part of being a teen and i am sure he saw and didint think anything cus it probably happened to him when he was younger too

[Guitarman]

It's part of puberty and I'm sure he knows that, he probably just let it go "unnoticed"

[Sandlapper50]

he may not have noticed at all...but if he did, he probably didn't think anything of it, its natural for that to happen, i would have just readjusted and gone on with practice :)

[AwesomeAussie]

its totally natural dont worry about it im sure he has seen the same thing happen to some of his other students i have seen it happen before as im a swim coach as well

[owen daniels]

I dont think you should of done anything just ignore it and pretend like it didnt happen after all it happens to all of us :)

[Muscleteen92]

I think he noticed but didn't think much of it, after all he was a teen once and probably had similar experiences

[billium183]

hmm..well...i think every1 else here has it right....theres nothing you "shud hav done"..what cud u of? chopped ur dick off?

[The Ninja]

i know random boners suck but its part of puberty that everyone goes through including your coach and if he saw anything im sure he understands.

[Giles]

If it was blatantly obvious, then chances are that he did see an outline. All the same though, he's going to let it go and not mention it. He's probably seen it before and understands why it's happened and knows that it's best to just let it go.

I think that you did the right thing at the time, if you notice it happening again I would just try to ignore it and get on with practice or if it gets too noticeable (fully erect, for example) then I'd make a quick exit to the locker rooms or toilets until it goes down.

[Mynameisconner]

Totally natural. Dont sweat it. NOt much you could do anyways.

[Dog Desab]

not much you couldve done... random boners suck but try to think of stuff that just dont turn you on next time...

[kdddd]

yea dude, theres really nothing much that you could of done, your coach is a professional he prolly has seen it before and will prolly see it again

[Chris95]

Judging by this post and some of your other posts, you seem to have a male body hair "fetish". It doesn't mean you're gay, or even bi. You can be turned on by it and still be straight. It'll probably pass over once puberty ends, and your hormones calm down.

As for what you "should have done", I think you did the best possible thing. You went to the bathroom and tried to hide is as best as you could, which is what I would have done.

[Judas]

yea i might have that but today i got an actual hard on (not just semi) in front of him!! it wasnt sticking out or upright, it was facing up against my waist (not so it pokes out), but the bulge was huge and i made that excuse again and i waited for like three min until it went down again..

[MrMan]

Dude look like you have it for older men LOL

[Giles]

yea i might have that but today i got an actual hard on (not just semi) in front of him!! it wasnt sticking out or upright, it was facing up against my waist (not so it pokes out), but the bulge was huge and i made that excuse again and i waited for like three min until it went down again..

Well if you were fully erect in front of him and he didn't say anything, then he's probably never going to say anything. Maybe just try to ignore it next time and get on with practice.

[JJSSHH]

if ur just erect in front of him thts no big deal, if u ejaculated thats huge, but no big deal if u just had a boner

[Mythical]

Well, What I would have done was this, get out of the pool, but, before you got out of the pool I would have stood on the step maybe and sort of "unclinged" your trousers so that way they wouldnt stick to your "area". Another thing is, exactly what Ben said, If he didnt say anything, he never will. And besides, you're both men, so I'm sure he's seen it all. Hope this helped

[dude14]

that kinda stuff hapens to me all the time, like dering school a teacher asked wat i knew about some dead dude in history and i got erect and was like, go back to sleep stupid and it did so i was happy. and no mater how hard i try it hapens around girls to me. i love tose thing, hmmmmmmm yum girls.

[Chris95]

yea i might have that but today i got an actual hard on (not just semi) in front of him!! it wasnt sticking out or upright, it was facing up against my waist (not so it pokes out), but the bulge was huge and i made that excuse again and i waited for like three min until it went down again..

If it's happening alot, try to think thoughts that'll turn you off. Something that'll be so unattractive to you, that you'll forget about it and you won't be hard anymore.

that kinda stuff hapens to me all the time, like dering school a teacher asked wat i knew about some dead dude in history and i got erect and was like, go back to sleep stupid and it did so i was happy. and no mater how hard i try it hapens around girls to me. i love tose thing, hmmmmmmm yum girls.

This post honestly scares me.

[neigh]

i bet he did not even care.
i would not worry about it
all guys get boners all the time.

[Nancy Boy]

Its perfectly normal to get boners in situations like that. I used to get them in gym and it was super noticeable, but nobody said anything because they know it happens to everybody! ;)

[reithedragonboy]

That's something that you can't help. It's natural for someone your age. Just make sure he doesn't do anything beyond just a quick accidental stare.

[The Flightless Hawk]

IF he saw it, he probably didn't care, its part of growing up.

[DanielBoy]

There really isn't anything to do in that situation. As far as the boner gos, nothing to worry about, your a hormonal adolescent, he isn't going to judge unless you did something to him. Don't worry about stuff like that, it is probably really embarrassing, but just ignore it and it should go away. :D

[lil emo boy]

jerk'd off so the erection would go away..

[JOSEE]

He probly went through it it'd ok

[chris4]

aw dont freak out dude, you did the most reasonable thing. you cant always control your body, but you did what you could to prevent any further awkwardness.

[GagaAlex]

Im sure he didnt mind if he saw, Its the general reaction to feel nervous, Dont be he's a man too he understands

[jovien]

if i would have gotten cuaght i would have said sry im still going through puberty and this happens at the randomnis times or played it off like i was stupid(ps if u not gay then u might be bi cuase people usually dont desribe men like that and put im not gay unless they are to confused or cant come out)

[crazycoller]

I coach kids the same way as your coach and I just ignore it. So what if it happens. Going through Lifeguard training i got strapped to a backboard floating on the water so many times and if it happened its natural and it will go away. You just have to ignore it.

[KodieBear]

i wouldve ignored it. crap happens ya know? teen guys get boners all the time, sometimes for no reason. and im sure your coach went through the same stuff, ;thats why he didnt say anything.

[Harley Quinn]

please don't bump old threads :locked: