Masturbating with friends

[biboy96]

So I've been masturbating with my friends now, since I was 13(14 now), and I like it. I've even blowed one of my friends... I wonder: Is this Normal?

PS: I'm not gay... I'm attracted sexually to women, and emotionally to women as well, but I do enjoy boy-sex to...

[Guitarman]

This is classifed as experimenting. But if you do it on a regular basis this means your are involved in homosexual sexual activity.

[TCAllstar]

I would call u lucky I'm way to scared to ask any of my friends to do anything like that, I don't think that's gay it's just being curious. [Content removed] - Kaius

[CaptainObvious]

So I've been masturbating with my friends now, since I was 13(14 now), and I like it. I've even blowed one of my friends... I wonder: Is this Normal?

PS: I'm not gay... I'm attracted sexually to women, and emotionally to women as well, but I do enjoy boy-sex to...

Is it normal? Everyone's idea of that is different. Many teenage boys do experiment with other guys; most probably do not, but many do. In that sense, it's fairly common and fairly common tends to mean normal.

As for your orientation, if you're attracted to girls you're not gay. If you're attracted to guys as well, you're probably bisexual to one extent or another.

[Giles]

Simplifying what David just said... Yes.
It's normal. A lot of guys will do it at some point.

[nick]

Complicating what Ben said and backing up what David said, if normal means "Do the majority of boys do it" then probably not, however if it means "do quite a lot of boys do it" then yes.

If you touch each other, do bjs or anal then that would be classed as homosexual activity, however doing homosexual activity does not make you homosexual any more than having straight sex makes you straight.

[biboy96]

I would call u lucky I'm way to scared to ask any of my friends to do anything like that, I don't think that's gay it's just being curious. [Content removed] - Kaius

Well I didn't ask... I gave one of them a massage which went loow ;)

And thanks to all the rest for clarifying it :D
But are there others here in the same situation?

[newteen13]

A lot of guys experiment when they're younger. If you keep doing it, it's not experimenting anymore.

[ThereforeIam042]

I think you're just curious, but if you keep doing it regularly or become emotionaly attached to one of the other guys then I think you start to move into the realm of bisexuality or homosexuality.

[biboy96]

There are no feelings involved ;)
I think some guys are hot, but I do NOT want a boyfriend :P

[owen daniels]

It's just normal as it is just probably you being a curious teenager and experimenting :)

[biboy96]

Ok, good to hear, since I kinda see myself with a wife and children when I grow older...

[billium183]

iv done it once..and i felt....dirty...but id like to try it again :P

[biboy96]

Don't say stuff like that!!
I got a boner now :P

[The Ninja]

its normal. your just a curious teen who's expirementing. like other people said a lot of teens experiment sometime in their life.

[biboy96]

Kay :)
All I know is: I wanna try it again :P
I'm sure about my sexuality, so it'd not make any difference :P

[usedtobejv]

Im in the same position than you, I masturbate with my friend and want to do it again, last time we did wach other blow job but I dont want to do that again

[biboy96]

I like to blow actually :P

[zander]

it could be experimenting or you could be bi

[biboy96]

I dunno, but I Enjoy :P

[ezduzit323]

masturbating with friends is gay sexual behavior but doesn't mean you're gay. i've had j/o buddies but never did anything besides that. no emotional attraction at all.

[walpoler93]

im also straight, and experiment with one of my guy friends. not only have we jerked each other but we've also put our mouths on each others dicks, i dont consider this gay its just experimenting

[Mynameisconner]

I still think your lucky lol. Although I mean I'd consider that bi. I'm still the same way. I love the thought of doing stuff with males, but also females. And futuristically I would want a wife, and children too. That's in the future. Why cant you experiment now? WE are still young ;)

[Wiwwm0]

I think it's okay to do that. It's good to experiment with other guys... Just have fun! :]

[Peterapetera96]

How do you talk them into it??? And don't say 'i don't know'

[Teenage Art]

I want to try :O I am curious :|

[Spoookster]

I used to experiment when i was younger. I am also straight. so... :)) same as u.. i use to enjoy it ;))

[biboy96]

How do you talk them into it??? And don't say 'i don't know'

Well.... Massage... Lower... Lower... touch crotch, boner, pants off, jerk off, blow job ;)

[steezypeezy]

well i have done stuff with my friend too and idk if it makes you gay or not but i still think about girls sometimes

[Mynameisconner]

If your going to "ask". Dont make it awkward. Just go with the flow. Through touch show what you want to try, instead of trying to create an awkward situation. If it's uncomfortable for either of you, you realized that maybe you shouldn't do it again. If you enjoy it. No harm done. ;)

[Noah_101]

its perfectly normal....its called experimenting
Ive done the same things with my best friend...it was good bonding time:D

[TySpeedy]

I think your either bi, or just curious... Nothing to worry about. Guys at are age, do this kinda thing... It's perfectly normal.[:

[zach_15]

Yeah I think all guys do it at some point in their lives.

[cokeboy]

ya dude itz fine nothing wrong with it, do it as long as u want
u stop when u want to or keep it going as long as u want. have fun:yeah:

[lolimbrando]

Experimenting, basically. If its not everyday, and your not like emotionally attached or sexually then it is experimenting.

[Judas]

Not abnormal. Every guy goes through a curious and experimental stage.

[Milo1234]

its pretty normal as experimenting with friends is pretty common

[DanielBoy]

It seems like there are allot of questions about this out here. Yes it is normal, most every guy out there is curious, and every guy has been curious at some point in their lives, usually during puberty. If you enjoy it, keep doing it, have fun. :)

Hope this helps. :D

[CuriousZach]

You're pretty young so its just curiosity and experimentation. Completely normal (:
Since you enjoy it, you might be bi

[Peterapetera96]

Id be fun but how do u ask?

[jimmy-magic]

yeah thats normal man, use are just having fun man . peace .

[neigh]

normal done the same to j/o
most guys do with friends.
normal i vote u and i r normal. the rest of the world is not!

[crazycoller]

its not exactly common to do it so frequently but its normal curiosity

[Luke608]

i guess. idk. your just experimenting.

[playa85]

definetely experimenting and maybi BI

[brandon.t]

im not afraid to tell you all i gave my friend a blowjob years ago. Started out as masterbation then it steped up to blowjobs but that is as far as we went.

i'd say its normal for young boys to want to experiment a little....as long as it dont go to far

[jonjon77777]

ya its normal i doo that alot but have no emotional attraction to guys

[man with freaky plan]

its normal and your lucky

[lisshar]

i usally masturbate with my friend and we blow each other and had anal once

[BoredGuy26]

It's normal, just experimentimg. Ot doesnt mean your gay, being gay is if you have feeling for guys

[newteen13]

I've done it with one friend a few times. We jacked each other and gave each other blowjobs. I'm not gay and I have a girlfried, but it still feels good to do stuff with my friend. It started as experiementing, but we both like it, and were Ok with it.

[Jolteon]

thats totally normal.

[JJSSHH]

the friend I've done it with had a 1inch penis and it was just gross,

[ilovethegoodfeeling]

Personally it is just hormones. I am horny all the time and so is my friend so sometimes we just mutual beat off and blow each other. No big deal. We do it while watching girls gone wild !

[MarkieMark]

It just experimenting :) You are just trying too find out who you like more men or women :)

[blondebeast]

It;s called experimentation...and its normal.

[ilovethegoodfeeling]

It just experimenting :) You are just trying too find out who you like more men or women :)
When my friend and I do it we are usually pretty bored. Besides, who doesn't enjoy a nice beat off session

[Martianus]

Experimenting I guess. Masturbation is normal though having oral is another level for me.

[Dinozzo]

Totally normal, you're just curious !

[Ben_E]

Nothing wrong with it at all in my opinion. All that matters is that everyone is enjoying doing it. Me and my 3 BFF's all enjoy doing it and have fun, so why not??

[hotteengeek97]

me and my friends have done stuff before we don't do it a lot but once and a while we will expatriate.

[Pyro99]

I think you are just enjoying it because you know it has to do with sexual intercourse.I mean, you are in an age where hormones are really going crazy, but there is a possibility that you are bisexual. I'm 13 as well, and even though I'm straight, I really want to jerk off with my best friend:)

[Ben_E]

I think you are just enjoying it because you know it has to do with sexual intercourse.I mean, you are in an age where hormones are really going crazy, but there is a possibility that you are bisexual. I'm 13 as well, and even though I'm straight, I really want to jerk off with my best friend:)

Mmmm tricky one that, i started with my BFF when we were both 13, and still do it together. Just remember a simple back to back wank with your friend can easily turn into being naked and giving each other hand jobs. But i don't regret anything i've done at all.

[giles2603]

like some other people said.. im also to shy to ask any of my friends. :(

[JimmyIsNowAMan]

If you want to try it with your friends, just ask one or some of them how they j/o. Ask them to show you...it will lead to some fun.

[chetbonare]

Normal is based on what exactly? Number of people doing it? Sure if you want to base it on that.

Normal is a person's idea, You will find many ideas of "Normal". And I'll just give a lil example.
If you ask a straight guy if its okay to well, kiss another guy he will of course say no. But if you ask a gay guy if its okay, then he will say yes. So its according who you ask, and what answer you are looking for..

But I say its normal if the friend is like a close friend and you trust him. :) Simple answer

[Jimmy97]

Iv never done it but would like to but just dont know how my friend will react to me asking him!

[alexkun]

thats perfectly normal... and thats also the way i think about myself...

[goal123123]

I've done the same. It's no biggy.

[Vteenboy 1]

its normal

[Jtyler]

It's very Norman there is nothing wrong with that

[Wesl3y]

I would say a lot of guys do, I wouldn't call it normal as not all guys wanna go find there friends and jack off. But it definitely happens a lot. I have with maybe 10 guys at different times, and still do with some.

[Gogeta]

i dont think it makes you gay
I have done it before and it was just purely for please no attraction

[lolwutsuperslide]

Yeah it's totally normal, just experimentation