Best way to break off lesbian realationship

[luv2cheer]

Me and my family go to the same restaraunt twice a week every week, and we have had the same waitress for a couple years now. We'll one time me and this waitress "hooked up" if u know what I mean. So now we kind of have a No strings attatched, friends with benifits kind of thing going on. Well now whenever we eat at the restaraunt she flirts with me right in front of my family, and its kinda obvious. I want to break it off with her but im kinda nervous, because my family sees her all the time, and I dont want her to say anything to them about our realationship out of bitterness. How should I try and end it?

[Rutherford The Brave]

They way you'd normally do it in a normal relationship. "Hey, can you stay away from me." Or atleast, I'd say, I had sex with you. Now beat it.

[luv2cheer]

They way you'd normally do it in a normal relationship. "Hey, can you stay away from me." Or atleast, I'd say, I had sex with you. Now beat it.

I would say that, but the way her flirting is borderline obvious, If she were mad she wouldnt be shy about outing our get togethers.

[Iron Man]

I would say "I really don`t want to see you (literally see you) anymore, and please don`t flirt with me in front of my family".

[Aspiringanonymous]

Girls' Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[leak]

i will say bitch i had sex with you know leave me along

[luv2cheer]

i will say bitch i had sex with you know leave me along

OK I DONT want to make her angry lol

[Rutherford The Brave]

OK I DONT want to make her angry lol

Just tell her its your family, there is a time and place for everything as Prof. Oak says.

[carrieunderwoodfan]

How does she flirt hun? Maybe its only obvious 2 u?

[peaceloverugby]

I would do it privately, in person, and just lay out all your concerns. Tell her you don't want the relationship to continue, give your reasons, and then say that you're worried about the way she acts around your family. If it's truly NSA and not emotional or romantic (which it rarely is, in my experience, but who knows), then she should have no hard feelings, or at least not any that would compel her to out you. And if there is emotional attachment, and she really does care about you, then she'd care enough not to out you. Either way, unless she's a possessive, vengeful bitch I doubt you have much to worry about.

[aaronbrumbrum22]

just tell her like after your family has left that you don't want her to be flirting with her too much and when you still see her you can just be friends. you don't have to end a relationship by like exploding @ her.

[Katrina]

Start out by saying something like, "I want to talk to you about our relationship, because it's not really working out for me." Don't beat around the bush. Let her know that what you're doing is breaking up with her.Try to talk in "I" statements. No matter how much she frustrates you or drives you crazy, keep the emphasis on yourself. Say, "I'm not happy," or "I feel it's time for me to move on from this relationship."She should know when you leave that what has just happened is a break-up. You may have to spell it out for her. "I feel it's best if we break-up now."
Best of luck.:)

[luv2cheer]

How does she flirt hun? Maybe its only obvious 2 u?

Oh Its obvious

[justalovestruckteen]

I don't see why you have to break up with her if all you want is for her to stop flirting in front of your faimly and to not tell them,
just ask her to stop and keep it a secert

Oh I love forbidden love,