Am gay but no1 knows

[LyDrake]

hi... i am gay... but no1 knows.. cause where i live if ppl found out am gay i am gonna b harrass n maybe beaten... i was wondering what should i do?... i have been with alot of girl just for the sake of not letting no1 know

[dramakid]

I can't exactly give you alot of advice about how to tell someone, but you should atleast let your family or closest friend now and see what they say. Your family is your family and they shouldn't care about your choice on life, also try looking around for someone to partner up with.

Hope this helps :)

[Aspiringanonymous]

Boys' Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Fruit_Tart.]

i think you should tell someone that's really close to you as a friend or family. if you trust them that much with your secret i would tell them. if you don't want the word out that your gay becuz of the place you live i understand becuz i also live like that. my community is very critical and will look at me differently rather than the same ol' me. eh. :/ but i think you should at least tell someone to take some of the weight off your shoulders. best of luck! :D

[Harley Quinn]

You know, you don't actually have to come out now, you have plenty of time to do that, and you've got more reason not to, then to. Being with girls wont make it go away, you're better off not coming out and dealing with the fact, yes you are gay.

[Billy15]

hey i hear you loud and clear because i am in the exact same boat and absolutely cannot mention it to anyone around here including family because well, everyone is homophobic. I feel like I am the only gay in the whole state but i realize that if there are other gays, they'd never tell anyone either because everyone is so homophobic.

I agree with the one poster who said "whats your hurry and why do you need to tell anyone" becuse you are still young and have plenty of time. I realize well that you want to be yourself, you want to be accepted, your tired of hiding but as sad as it is, some of us have no choice right now and that is why I love VT so much because at least here (like you) we can be ourselves.

[Ummm...]

I'm bi and I've only told one person. He's understanding and I tell him everything. I kinda want to tell other people, but I don't know how else will be as understanding as he was.

[LyDrake]

lol... i told my sis... she started calling me names n stuff.... she told my parents... but i lied my way out b4 i get into trouble.

[ThereforeIam042]

I Realize that it might be terrible to have to carry arround that burden. I'm I'm the same situation myself,but if there really is a chance of recieving bodily harm because of your homosexuality then it might be better to conceal it.

[zander]

i can relate only one person knows and that is my best friend, but i lucked out cus he is bi too so its like we have each others secrets to keep

[Mynameisconner]

Yeah, if anything, tell someone you trust. If no one, maybe you should hide it. I wouldn't want you to get hurt for expressing yourself :/.