is she bored of me ?

[Paladino]

It seems to me as if my girlfriend doesnt want to spend time with me anymore, she was with her bestfriend all day today and I phoned her and asked if I would see her today, she said no, I asked if I would see her tomorrow and she said probably not because her and her friend are going to the park and then I asked when will I see you and she said to me I dont know, I know I might just be being too paranoid but I love her and I dont want to lose her.

[devilsheep]

Sounds bad bro to be honest but you`re only 15 you probably don`t love her you are just caught up in the whole relationship thing. Trust me i`ve been through 2 pretty serious ones the latter of the two the most serious and I convinced myself in the 2nd one that I loved her when really I was just scared to admit that I didnt out of keeping a good perspective while with her. Just see how it plays out if she continues being un-interested with the relationship then maybe shes having second thoughts. Id say give it a week or so and if she still does then ask her if shes losing interest, its a genuine question that she can`t really do much about but answer either honestly or desperately but you can tell if shes lying.

[princessmayer]

It seems to me as if my girlfriend doesnt want to spend time with me anymore, she was with her bestfriend all day today and I phoned her and asked if I would see her today, she said no, I asked if I would see her tomorrow and she said probably not because her and her friend are going to the park and then I asked when will I see you and she said to me I dont know, I know I might just be being too paranoid but I love her and I dont want to lose her.


I guess you really need to look for another.. It seems that she dont like you anymore. Im not saying this just to make you disappoint with her, but im a girl and i know why she doing that to you. My advice, do everything to talk to her and ask her whats her problem. That will solve your problem with your girlfriend..

[Kaius]

I wouldn't jump the gun, the best thing to do is talk to her, she may just need a little bit of space. As for his age meaning he doesn't love her i don't agree at all. Age has nothing to do with it, and it hardly ever does. Just try to be positive and stop thinking the worst, because in some cases it can make the matter worse. Just keep in mind it might be just a phase, but talking to her is the only thing that will straighten this out. Maybe over the phone/msn if shes still not agreeing to spend any time with you. Good luck

[Paladino]

I wouldn't jump the gun, the best thing to do is talk to her, she may just need a little bit of space. As for his age meaning he doesn't love her i don't agree at all. Age has nothing to do with it, and it hardly ever does. Just try to be positive and stop thinking the worst, because in some cases it can make the matter worse. Just keep in mind it might be just a phase, but talking to her is the only thing that will straighten this out. Maybe over the phone/msn if shes still not agreeing to spend any time with you. Good luck

Thanks, but the problem is solved it wasnt that she didnt want to its just because since we have been going out she hasnt spent as much time with her best friend and she just wanted to spend time with her, but we spent time yesterday and it was AMAZING.

[Strength]

It seems to me as if my girlfriend doesnt want to spend time with me anymore, she was with her bestfriend all day today and I phoned her and asked if I would see her today, she said no, I asked if I would see her tomorrow and she said probably not because her and her friend are going to the park and then I asked when will I see you and she said to me I dont know, I know I might just be being too paranoid but I love her and I dont want to lose her.

either bored or cheating.

this situation sounds very similar to the one i was in.