Her past.

[tripolar]

I got a great girlfriend and love her beyond all belief and I know she would never cheat on me, but one thing seems to bug me at times is her past relationships.

Even months before we went out, we talked about sex and shit. Well somehow i asked how many people she's been with and her answer was 4. At the time i found it surprising because of her level of class and she doesn't seem like she'd do that, but then i quickly forgot about it.

The first time we had sex was also when i lost my virginity. But now the fact that she has been with other people, counting me is 5 it seems like alot of people and she's my only one. I don't see her as a whore but its alot of people in my head. Also she says she wishes she still had her virginity for me, but the four other people seems to me like no attempt to save it.

The sex is great and she loves it, so its not an insecurity thing, but why does it bother me then. It doesn't bug me when hanging out with her, but when i'm alone I'll just randomly think of it.

I've never brought up this matter to her because i don't want to fuck up what we got or hurt her feelings, but I want at least let it out of my mind because it bugs me. :confused:

[dosyedafzal]

yes it will be fun

[tripolar]

yes it will be fun

haha what does that mean, i guess your right its fun so who cares.

[AutumnDae]

There's nothing you can do to change it, but I do get what you're saying. Maybe she felt something with those guys, thought it was a good time, and later regretted it.

Either way, she can't take it back, so you just got to kind of get over it. Maybe you're worried about STDs, if not consciously, maybe subconsciously?

[Katrina]

I completely concur with what Autumn said.
Furthermore if you love her then you should forget about the past and move on, I know you feel bad about this but one day you will look back an laugh about it, your only 18 and have a whole life ahead of you, there's a lot of disappointments in life so don't let something minor like this upset you..

[HeroForever]

I had a relationship similar to yours. I lost my virginity to a girl who has several partners before me.