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[XomaggsoX]

My bf and I hve been together for 2 weeks and i dont no if he just wants me for sex?!?!? We had sex the first week we were dating and he is always trying to get me to do it with him again and again. His friend says tht he is just using me, but he said he really is interested. What do u guys think???


Oh and btw me and him have done it 5 times since we have been together and he said tht we r not doing it enough?? Does tht mean anything?

[nick]

Having sex 5 times in 2 weeks is not enough to class some one as a sex maniac, but expecting sex in the first week of a relationship is pretty pushy. Wanting sex has to be a 2 way thing, you both need to feel comfortable with it, you shouldnt go along with it because you feel under pressure, that's just wrong and if your bf really loved you he would understand that and be prepared to take it more slowly.

I think you should tell him that maybe it was too soon and that you want to take more time to just get to know each other. If he's not prepared to wait for you then he's not the right guy.

[steve1234]

You should never be pressurised into having sex. Say to him that he is putting you under pressure, and you don't want to be pressurised. If he really likes you and respects you, he will be understanding, but if not, maybe his not the right guy for you.
I've basically just repeated what nick said, :)

[eltomo]

Well, 5 times in 2 weeks sounds like he wants sex a lot. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 months and we haven't even had oral sex.

[XomaggsoX]

Thx :):)