Weird Dream??!....

[HalfDeadHippie]

Please delete this, problem solved :)

[kryptonite]

Are you two self-concious with your bodies, or do you not care if you see each other naked?

I think you could be conflicted. How do you feel about gay people in general? Is she straight, bi, gay, or curious? If you don't know, you may want to casually ask her one day.

Have you ever been out with just her? Not necessarily a date, but just hanging out?

Ask how she feels about you. Maybe she has feelings for you that you don't know about, IDK.

[HalfDeadHippie]

Well, see, we're good friends, and I DON'T have feelings for her, that's the weird thing. I've never been naked around her, I'm pretty self-concious. I'm totally pro-gay. She's straight. I'm straight. (hence the "weird" dream). She's slept over at my house, etc. lol, does that answer all your questions? :P

[kryptonite]

Are you on any medicines or do drugs (either legal drugs or otherwise?) No, I won't hold it against you.

Did you eat or drink anything funky or weird the day before you had the dream, including alcohol?

Someone tagged the thread with bi-curious and bi-sexual. Obviously, I don't know if that's you or not, but you said that you're straight, BUT maybe a little curious recently.

It's not uncommon for people to be curious. I'm thinking that deep down inside, perhaps you do have a little bit of curiousity for her. Perhaps i'm wrong though, IDK.

Next time you go to the pool, or change clothes around her, maybe you could casually ask her if she wants to get changed in the same room. Just tell her that "we're both girls, we both have the same stuff, so what's the big deal?" If she agrees, don't try to be too obvious, but see if she is totally paranoid and wants to hide in a corner, or see if she's totally open and not caring.

It's entirely possible that as you both undress, your eyes could wander a little bit. For all you know, her eyes could wander too... and that's what you'd want to look for. If her eyes wander, and your's do, it's possible you both have feelings.

Now, i'm not saying sit on the bed totally naked, but i'm saying don't hide in the closet, or behind the door. Just take your pants off, put your lower bathingsuit on.. you can put a bathingsuit on without the aid of a towel. Just use your clothes to cover up. And if something slips, who cares? It's not like you haven't seen one before.

[lamboman43]

Are you on any medicines or do drugs (either legal drugs or otherwise?) No, I won't hold it against you.

Did you eat or drink anything funky or weird the day before you had the dream, including alcohol?

Someone tagged the thread with bi-curious and bi-sexual. Obviously, I don't know if that's you or not, but you said that you're straight, BUT maybe a little curious recently.

It's not uncommon for people to be curious. I'm thinking that deep down inside, perhaps you do have a little bit of curiousity for her. Perhaps i'm wrong though, IDK.

Next time you go to the pool, or change clothes around her, maybe you could casually ask her if she wants to get changed in the same room. Just tell her that "we're both girls, we both have the same stuff, so what's the big deal?" If she agrees, don't try to be too obvious, but see if she is totally paranoid and wants to hide in a corner, or see if she's totally open and not caring.

It's entirely possible that as you both undress, your eyes could wander a little bit. For all you know, her eyes could wander too... and that's what you'd want to look for. If her eyes wander, and your's do, it's possible you both have feelings.

Now, i'm not saying sit on the bed totally naked, but i'm saying don't hide in the closet, or behind the door. Just take your pants off, put your lower bathingsuit on.. you can put a bathingsuit on without the aid of a towel. Just use your clothes to cover up. And if something slips, who cares? It's not like you haven't seen one before.

Drugs aren't going to cause you to have dreams like this.

[HalfDeadHippie]

lolol, yeah, I'm not on drugs or alcohol or what ever, :P and I've alreasy said, I DON'T have feelings for her, that's why it's weird. I'm not looking for any way to get with her, she's practically like a sister to me!

[Sasha]

I've had those type of dreams...totally normal

[HalfDeadHippie]

okay, I'm glad I'm not alone. Thanks :)

[sammyboyy]

this has happened to me b4 i just shrug it off cause its our hormones programmin our minds