Wish you were normal?

[Mattyboy2]

Does anyone else wish they were normal?
Being anything other than straight as an arrow just messes everything up and makes everything so complicated. It's not like being gay or lesbian or w/e is actually beneficial I mean what can u do with a guy that you can't do with a girl....Plus normal relationships actually have a purpose: To eventually have a baby..... Not exactly rule number one with gay relationships tho is it.

So i just want to know who wishes they were straight and why?

[nick]

I am normal, just not straight

[beedubs]

Does anyone else wish they were normal?

what is normal? many people may have different views of so called "normal". i think im normal in my eyes.

Being anything other than straight as an arrow just messes everything up and makes everything so complicated.

how? this makes no sense. it doesnt make things complicated at all.

It's not like being gay or lesbian or w/e is actually beneficial I mean what can u do with a guy that you can't do with a girl....

did you know that people dont choose their sexuality? were not looking for benifits or what we can do with the same sex. were looking for love. its not about the physical stuff, its about the emotional.

Plus normal relationships actually have a purpose: To eventually have a baby..... Not exactly rule number one with gay relationships tho is it.

ok this part pisses me off. not every, "normal" (as you say) couple has a baby. some people just dont want one or cant have one. and what makes you think that gays cant have a kid. yes we cant have intercorse and have a baby, but do you know how many kids dont have parents and are all alone. we can adopt. i plan on having a kid when im old with my partner. and what rules do you speak of i would like to see them?

just because we are attracted to the same sex, does NOT meen we are any lesser then anyone. i love who i am, no matter what people say. i am as equal as anyone else on this planet.

So i just want to know who wishes they were straight and why?
NO.


sorry this kinda got me mad

[SneakBrain]

honestly yeah sometimes I wish if I was normal

[Jess]

really there's nothing wrong with being gay, lesbian, or bi but I guess some people do wish they were straight. *shrugs*

[Fruit_Tart.]

What the fuck?! in my opinion there is no such thing as normal. you can be like everyone else but that's not normal. everyone is different in their own way weither its being straight, bi, gay, trans, or watever sexuals there are. even for a straight guy they can be out of the ordinary so its still not considered normal. normal is jus what you are brainwashed to think is the right way when in the end its not really becuz there are different people all over the world that do wwaayyy different things. this is getting me sorta mad. normal. *psh* don't ever think your normal. im not. :P

[Billy15]

sadly i said yes because i dont want to be different, i dont want to hide, i dont want to disappoint friends and family and above all i dont want to be hated.

[chazzrox2]

How can you say there is a normal? Nobody is normal Matt just celebrate your differences.
And I know you're just stressed with everything atm so just relax. Everyone can have kids ever heard of adoption and besides as I'm sure the gay community will probably confirm: Nobody chooses to be gay

[Lifeguard18]

this thread pisses me the fuck off in so many fucking ways that im not even going to bother to list whats wrong with it. but i will respond to the baby part. ITS CALLED ADOPTION! there, done, settled.

[lamboman43]

I wouldn't consider being straight means you are normal. Normal is boring if even possible. But if I could choose to be straight I would.

[Iron Man]

What is normal anyway? Normal sounds like another word for generic or dull. Everyone is unique for a purpose.

[Captor K]

If I were "normal," it would be 2012 in 2010. Who gives a rat's ass?

Being anything other than straight as an arrow just messes everything up and makes everything so complicated.

Being straight as an arrow also messes up everything and makes everything so complicated. Gay, straight, or bi, life bites everybody in the ass.

It's not like being gay or lesbian or w/e is actually beneficial I mean what can u do with a guy that you can't do with a girl...

Well, yeah, it is beneficial. Less breeding, less "competition," and an array of other positives. Again, it works both ways. And you seem a little fixated on the sex, so "what can you do with a guy that you can't do with a girl" receives the answer frotting.

Plus normal relationships actually have a purpose: To eventually have a baby..... Not exactly rule number one with gay relationships tho is it.

....Why must breeding always be the number one factor of a heterosexual relationship? Some people can't have babies because they're sterile/infertile, so by that logic, those relationships don't have a purpose. The purpose of any relationship is, again, not about breeding, but about bonding, love, and commitment. Popping out babies is a distant second. To top it off, I don't even want children. Do other non-baby-wanting people have no purpose in a relationship?

I once wanted to be straight. Not anymore. I love being not normal.

[ThereforeIam042]

All the time, it's terrible to be like this. It would be nice to be accepted for who you are, and it's even worse because you hear all the time that what you are is wrong,and so you try to conform and create a false identity so you can get acceptance from the people arround you. And you know that you're not that different from the false you they love but to them,the true you is somthing to be despised and viewed with the utmost contempt due to circumstances entirely outside your control. But we can only wish.

[Zach_14]

i wish i was straight of coarse, bieng bi/gay you fancy boys and you cant do anything about it if their straight,

[Zazu]

Trololol, this amuses me.

Define normal. There's no such thing.

[Billy15]

The only reason that any gay doesn't feel normal is because a self righteous society has pounded that into our heads our entire lives. Fact is, we're as normal, loving, compassionate and classy as anyone else but were to proud and dignified to look down our noses at anyone who might happen to be different then we are. Further more, a guy may not have more then a girl can offer sexually, lovingly and emotionally but he damn sure has as much. WOW lol that felt goooood.

[Razors edge]

Does anyone else wish they were normal?

I consider myself normal, I don't consider myself any different from anyone else.
I like guys where as others like girls, I can never see why others can't accept it.

Being anything other than straight as an arrow just messes everything up and makes everything so complicated.

Straight, gay or bi, life is complicated for everyone.

It's not like being gay or lesbian or w/e is actually beneficial I mean what can u do with a guy that you can't do with a girl....Plus normal relationships actually have a purpose:
Why is it not beneficial?
If I loved a guy and he loved me back, I think that the relationship has a purpose.

To eventually have a baby..... Not exactly rule number one with gay relationships tho is it.

TBH, I don't think every relationship with a straight couple are to have a baby, most probably are, but not all.
Pressure is put on by a lot of couples parents to have a baby, and to have a wife/husband.
Even if the son/daughter doesn't want one.


So i just want to know who wishes they were straight and why?

Well, I'm happy the way I am and I wouldn't change it for anyone.

[Mynameisconner]

I just think it would be easier to be straight. More accepted into society. Although, I wish it was more accepting for gay's, and bi's.

[sildavin]

Does anyone else wish they were normal?
Being anything other than straight as an arrow just messes everything up and makes everything so complicated. It's not like being gay or lesbian or w/e is actually beneficial I mean what can u do with a guy that you can't do with a girl....Plus normal relationships actually have a purpose: To eventually have a baby..... Not exactly rule number one with gay relationships tho is it.

So i just want to know who wishes they were straight and why?

I have a hard time with this word "normal" like others said, I consider myself normal, and I live my life in a way that makes ME happy.

As far as "messing things up" and making life "more complicated" how does being gay/lesbian/bi do these things? I don't understand, even straight people have complication in their life, they aren't perfect either.

Again with "normal" relationships have a purpose? I dont know about you but the purpose of all of MY relationships, was to have someone to care about me, the way I care about them, sure a baby is a welcome reward, but for me. Not the ultimate goal. If I end up with a partner of the same sex, if we choose to, there are 10,000 children in America without parents who would rather have two dads, then no dad at all.

Use the word "normal" with caution, everyone has their own definition of "normal" and to all us Gays/Lesbians/Bisexuals. We are who we are. We are "normal"

[Mysterious Skin]

Just as The Guy at th start said I am normal im just not straight.

[Setzer]

I do wish that I were normal :( I just can't live with this secret for long anymore ç_ç

[oscarlichen]

Does anyone else wish they were normal? I think that being normal is being yourself.


Being anything other than straight as an arrow just messes everything up and makes everything so complicated. No it doesn't? So what some people dislike your sexuality. Ignore them.


It's not like being gay or lesbian or w/e is actually beneficial I mean what can u do with a guy that you can't do with a girl.... Woah, Woah. Like Beedubs said, it isn't about the physical things, it's the emotional. And physical also. Just think about why would you like girls? What could you do with girls that you can't do with guys? Why would you choose girls over guys? Same reason for us. We don't choose our sexuality. It is chosen for us. It's not like we wake up one day and say, hey I think im gonna be gay!


Plus normal relationships actually have a purpose: To eventually have a baby..... Not exactly rule number one with gay relationships tho is it. Okay this is really messed up. It doesn't matter what NORMAL relationships are to you, because to us a normal relationship is loving our partner, just like yours. As long as you love your partner in a relationship there is no reason not to be in that relationship. We can always adopt.


So i just want to know who wishes they were straight and why? I don't. I love my sexuality.